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How early is too early to have sex in a relationship?
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Anonymous 5w

depends on the relationship, there isn’t any one right answer. it’s more about what you’re both comfortable with

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Anonymous 5w

First 2 months lowkey

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Anonymous 5w

depends on the people and their relationship with sex and eachother. my bf and i had sex after our first date, and we’re still great, 8 months later. do what feels right for you. there’s no shame in wanting to have sex with your bf.

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 5w

I’ve been dating my bf for about 2 weeks now and I’m like 50% ready to have sex but I’m wanting to wait a bit to see how this relationship goes and idk how long to wait

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 5w

sounds like waiting for a little while is the right move for you, don’t rush yourself into anything before you’re really ready

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 5w

yeah you right I wanna at least wait 3-6 months before doing anything

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Anonymous replying to -> hellraiser 5w

just like there’s no shame in wanting to wait, weeks, months or years. just take the time you need, there should be no rush.

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Anonymous replying to -> hellraiser 5w

Lol last night I dry humped him and it felt rlly good so I might just keep doing that until I’m ready (sorry if this is tmi)

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 5w

hah no worries. dry humping is fun asf can’t blame you. sex is meant to be pleasurable. with someone you have feelings for it can make you feel more connected and aligned

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Anonymous replying to -> hellraiser 5w

I’ve had feelings for my bf for months and I’ve thought about having sex and doing a lot of other stuff with him even before we started dating but I told him I want to wait and do things slow until I’m ready but like the horniness is getting to me again 🧍🏻‍♀️

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 5w

horniness is completely natural! no need to feel ashamed or like you have to suppress those feelings. but yeah just take it slow if you feel like the more logical side of your brain is also telling you to hold off

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Anonymous replying to -> hellraiser 5w

my logical side of my brain is telling me to wait a little longer if I can😔

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 5w

what’s the reasoning behind that?

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Anonymous replying to -> hellraiser 5w

I don’t want to lose my virginity too soon in a relationship and it not work out and I end up feeling like shit after

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 5w

totally makes sense! you want more stability. didn’t realize this would be your first time ever. maybe when you’re ready you could warm up to it by hitting bases before sex, ya know hand stuff, oral.

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Anonymous replying to -> hellraiser 5w

That’s what I’m thinking of doing later on low-key (if he’s down for it ofc) until I’m ready to take the next step

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