Ask Women on Sidechat | I’ve been in this relationship for three months we’ve said I’ve love you. But she never talks about the relationship or us in like any capacity. This is a sign she’s probably not taking it seriously and doesn’t care that much yeah?

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I’ve been in this relationship for three months we’ve said I’ve love you. But she never talks about the relationship or us in like any capacity. This is a sign she’s probably not taking it seriously and doesn’t care that much yeah?

Anonymous 2w

it could be, if it’s a worry just straight up ask her. idk if she’s autistic if that might be why she doesn’t bring it up or possibly trauma from past relationships, but just ask her. it’s better to ask now than later and learn she’s not taking it seriously

Anonymous 2w

What do you want her to talk about? Do you bring that stuff up?

Anonymous

#1 2w

Why do autistic people not talk about their relationships? Asking as an autistic person who doesn’t talk much about her relationship.

Anonymous

#3 2w

i got no idea, i’m not autistic but ive noticed in some of my friends that are they just dont talk abt it much. maybe bc of not knowing what to say abt it, or how to say what’s in your head?

Anonymous

#1 2w

Ohhh ok it’s an observation. Well for me, I don’t want to just talk about my boyfriend or show off my relationship. When I want to be taken seriously (such as when talking to law enforcement), I use “friend” as an all-encompassing term so their brains don’t go “silly drama” and check out. Stereotypes are annoying but real

Anonymous

#3 2w

thats fair and understandable!