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thoughts on being with someone you love (and have a healthy relationship with) vs someone you're in love with (and have an unhealthy relationship with)
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Anonymous 1w

i’m confused on what ur asking isn’t the answer obvious

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 1w

key difference is "love" vs "in love." struggling rn bc i'm deeply fond of my bf, but i know i'm not in love with him the way i was in love with [someone who was awful for me]. no need to be condescending

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 1w

maybe you're not being condescending, if you're not i'm sorry— tone is hard to read online

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 1w

wasn’t being condescending it was a genuine question lol. but that makes sense, just needed more context.

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 1w

I love the calmness and understanding I just saw

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