Anonymous #1 4w

Idk cuz I’m exclusive in a monogamous relationship with her?

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Anonymous #1 4w

if a guy flashed his dick to his friends that are girls in a monogamous straight relationship, would your response be the same?

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Anonymous #4 4w

that’s just not the same situation 😭 the equal situation would be a guy flashing his dick to his dude friends

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Anonymous #3 4w

I’m failing to see how the gender matters really? Some of her friends are literally bi

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Anonymous OP 4w

Like is that really an unreasonable boundary to have? To have my partner not flashing anyone else other than me? Obviously unless it’s really accidental or like breastfeeding and such

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Anonymous OP 4w

i’m agreeing that the situation is wrong just pointing out that the situation the other comment provided isn’t equal

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Anonymous #10 4w

okay this is like if u let him sleep with his guy friends, kiss them, cuddle with them, ect. as long as u were the only woman in his life. if that’s fine with you then you do you boo, but the idea that women can’t cheat with other women only furthers the fetishization and invalidation of wlw relationships and i kind of hate that.

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Anonymous #9 4w

Yeah I’d be fine with it, as long as I’m the only woman in his life. We had the same standards for one another. It’s not cheating on him if he’s open about being fine with it. So I don’t think it’s “furthering the fetishization of women” because I wasn’t fetishizing gay men by also allowing him to do the same as what he let me do. No double standards in our relationship. We just had rules that worked for us.

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Anonymous #9 4w

Yeah exactly, I also have this friend who lets his gf kiss only other girls and has no problem with that? I’m like what? SMH they don’t see same sex gender relationships as true or they are truly just cucks

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Anonymous #9 4w

Also, there’s no need for you to be snarky or combative when it’s rules and standards that are for MY PERSONAL RELATIONSHIPS lmao. It works for me, not for everyone. I never suggested you had to do the same LMFAO please quote me if I ever said that. Our business is mine and his alone, you don’t need to join in our relationship and implement your own rules when neither of us are interested in dating you???

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Anonymous OP 4w

It’s not that by any means OP, I’ve dated women and I’ve dated men and he knows I wouldn’t leave him. It’s the same as just having confidence in your partner and sure that they won’t do anything you’re not okay with. It’s absolutely trusting them and letting them have their freedom. It goes both ways. He had confidence I wouldn’t feel anything for them or leave him for them, and he was right; nothing ever happened. So it’s my OWN relationship and my OWN rules between me and my partner

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Anonymous #10 4w

i wasn’t intending to be snarky at all. i said “u do u” if that’s truly okay with you and if standards are the same for both parties then i’m not one to judge you for that. open relationships are a thing and that’s valid. i’ve just seen a lot of this sort of thing where men don’t care bc they think it’s hot or they just don’t see wlw as a valid thing so they just let their gfs do whatever. if u don’t want other ppl to be in ur business don’t put ur business online for all of us to see 😭

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Anonymous #9 4w

Ladies stop fighting

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Anonymous OP 4w

Bro go worry about your girlfriends boobs again

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Anonymous OP 4w

I only asked cuz ik some of her girlfriends are bi and look at female bodies sexually.

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Anonymous OP 4w

The woman I did most of my stuff with was my ex girlfriend but I had absolutely no intent of dating her and didn’t like her in the least anymore. We broke up for a reason. So I say this with a grain of salt, but if she hasn’t dated them already then she probably won’t leave you for them

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Anonymous #10 4w

like truly i did not try to implement my rules on you, you can continue to do whatever u want with ur life as long as everyone is okay with it, then i can’t stop you. do what u want, live ur life girl, but if ur business is only ur business and urs alone, then don’t post about it bc now we all know ur business

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Anonymous #9 4w

Everyone can KNOW my business but you’re the one PUTTING YOURSELF IN MY RELATIONSHIP. my rules do not apply to you and you’re actively trying to act like my relationship rules somehow impact you.

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Anonymous #10 4w

i’m sorry u felt that i was putting myself into ur relationship. i was not. i have said in every single comment here that u do u. u have to know that ur situation is not something that most ppl would be okay with and the fact that ur immediately so defensive tells me that u do know that which is why ur reading my comments as a personal attack. do whatever makes u happy. genuinely. but don’t be mad when someone else has a different opinion on it than you.

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Anonymous #10 4w

rules like urs can negatively impact the lgbtq community in invalidating homosexual relationships. it sounds like ur both being open, honest, and safe about it though so do what u want to do. i am literally a stranger on the internet and so are u. i can’t actually know every nuance of ur relationship or ur life and neither can anyone but u rly so if everyone involved is okay with it then again, who am i to judge.

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