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How do i deal with a woman who consistently says im out of her league… She’s super pretty and really fun but every time we talk at least once in the conversation she asks why i talk to her because I’m so far out of her league. It’s exhausting 🫩
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Anonymous 5w

Yuck, tell her insecurity that deep is isn't attractive and if she's going to constantly be doubting herself she needs to work on herself before getting in a relationship

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Anonymous 5w

she sounds like trash

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Anonymous 5w

She may be looking for reassurance about how you feel about her. If you’re willing to give it, then do. That said if she’s constantly saying it even after you reassure her you need to access if you have the patience for that. And if the insecurity is bleeding into other areas that are impacting you all it may be a sign to take a step back.

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Anonymous 5w

r u rlly that hot

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Anonymous 5w

Usually two people can grow from personal insecurities, but if this continues I’d bring this to her attention. Try asking why does she feel like she doesn’t deserve you and encourage her that she’s worthy of having the things she thinks isn’t for her

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Anonymous 5w

You don’t want insecurity. Just ignore and move on

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Anonymous 5w

She either wants your reassurance/complements and it might be her way of telling you how good looking you are or she’s trying to not commit to you. Totally honest confession, I’ve used similar lines for early friend zones. Like ‘yeah, we’re just in really different places right now’

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Anonymous 4w

how could you still like her after that😭 she sounds like a bitch

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 5w

Bro i don’t think i’m anything crazy😭 i don’t even have abs

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 5w

damn she just must be rlly insecure

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 5w

I honestly don’t like woman with insecurity. I had to deal with that for 5 months. It was exhausting.

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