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Comparing some women hating men (idky that matters to him so much) to isis wild work
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Why do we validate the women who hate men instead of giving them the help they need? They clearly have mental issues that need to be sorted out (due to prior trauma) with intensive mental health treatment (like therapy). We don't validate ISIS - why them?
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Anonymous 11w

Ok I’m not condoning what op said but is it not understandable to be upset when women say they hate men? Because I’m sure it wouldn’t go down well if it was the other way around

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Anonymous 11w

I definitely get why certain comments would make him feel self conscious or insecure, but him simply acknowledging that and asking what the best way to deal with it is would’ve been MUCH more effective than saying “they have mental health issues and validating them is bad and we don’t do that with terrorist groups.” 😬

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 11w

It doesn't, but do you see women complaining on the ask men group about men hating them consistently? Where are the women advocating to get those men help? Point is this does and solves nothing and its clearly just a bad faith question to attempt to start discourse like always

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 11w

Plus its being treated like such a crisis as if this is actually affecting them day to day

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 11w

Exactly! Which is why I felt like the post was made in bad faith because it was so extreme

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 11w

Fair point. But yes women do complain about it from time to time

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