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I just found out my bf of 6mo wasn’t completely faithful during our talking stage and first month or two into us being official. Mostly just emotionally, like still pursuing other girls but they knew he had a bf. What would you guys do?
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Anonymous 1w

he will never be faithful girl, break it off

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Anonymous 1w

Talking stage is one thing but after becoming official wth

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Anonymous 1w

if it’s after the talking stage dump his ahh

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Anonymous 1w

You are worth so much better than that, leave him and find someone better

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Anonymous 1w

Cheating after being official is cheating. Most people who do that are just assholes

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Anonymous 1w

tbh the first month or two of being official is one of the best parts of a relationship, it’s the honeymoon phase, you’re learning about every little thing about each other, it’s quite magical imo (sounds so cringy ik) it’s the moments you look back in years from now and think wow aww. how did u find this out? and do u know if he is faithful now?

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Anonymous replying to -> #5 1w

i would absolutely be hurt,i feel like if he couldnt be faithful then.i would def talk to him about it, i think it can be resolved and healed maybe he really is just stupid. my first ever relationship the first months i was still snapping guys (nothing crazy or trying to pursue them) i just always snapped a lot of people and in my head since i wasn’t trying to talk to them or anything it felt fine. i later realized tho wtf was wrong w me, i would never do that now, but at the time i didnt proces

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Anonymous replying to -> #5 1w

in this same relationship though, that guy was also snapping girls and i thought he had the same mindset as me (not talking to them just snapping to snap cuz that was kinda the “thing” at the time), however, he actually was trying to pursue them, and i let it slide and he ended up cheating on me BADLY so many times in the most cruel ways you can think of. anyway moral is, he could be like sophomore me and actually oblivious, or he could be like my ex. i ignored so many signs so be cautious😭

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