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i’m a girl that’s graduating college this year but has never been in a relationship. how do the girls get into relationships so easily? it never comes to me that easy 😭
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Anonymous 19h

It’s usually because they have lower standards, at least from what I see around me

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Anonymous 13h

I think I just spend time in spaces around men, I met my ex at the gym and my boyfriend at our internship- we both study engineering.

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Anonymous 13h

3 is blocked for me so they’re probably just trying to bait btw

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Anonymous 19h

Hey maybe we can talk?

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Anonymous 16h

Chasing above your means then

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 19h

I haven’t dated since high school and I had really low standards back then lmao

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 19h

LMAO my standards have always been a bit higher, maybe, so maybe that’s why

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 16h

Maybe you have low standards 😢

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 16h

You can set whatever standard you want but if you can’t get it then you aren’t good enough and it’s above your means lol

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 15h

Yo

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Anonymous replying to -> #6 13h

When you meet them, everyone loves talking about themselves so just finding things you have in common & asking them questions is a good starting point.

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 13h

Or maybe not? Really social interactions are too layered to determine something like this 🙄 To be fully honest you aren’t wrong but that’s such a strawman that I can’t agree because it’s missing too much for me to consider it a proper assessment

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 12h

I’m not even sure you know what a strawman is since I’m just restating a perspective that was there from my original comment. Not to mention you have no arguement all you did was comment some red herring/ad hom about me 💀

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 12h

F23

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 2h

You’re saying that it’s just being above means That is oversimplifying it to the point where it isn’t necessarily the case That is a strawman I have not done anything distracting from the main topic, so no red herring It was a bit of an ad hominem but I stand by it because really what my stance is, is that you shouldn’t lower your standards for anyone, so if you think you’re (or the poster) is above means, and what you comment implies a need to lower those standards, I will state what I see

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