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What would you do if a partner disclosed a fetish to you that is an important part of their sexuality to them, but they understand that many people would find it disgusting, and they’re telling you now you can decide to stay or leave immediately?
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Anonymous 1w

I would deeply appreciate their honesty bc that’s objectively the best way to handle it, and then decide wether or not I can stay

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Anonymous 1w

If it’s very important I would have preferred they mention it earlier but I also get why. And it very heavily depends on what this fetish is.

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Anonymous 1w

it depends on the specific fetish. a weird fetish that is ultimately between consening adults is very different from... other things

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Anonymous 1w

Oooh spill, what is it?

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Anonymous 1w

Obviously depends on what it is

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 1w

like feet vs. necrophilia

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 1w

What I had in mind is stuff that is consensual. That some people deal with together, but is it something most would find arousing.

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Anonymous replying to -> #5 1w

Anything on this list that (the entries that are in reference to stuff that some find sexy but most find disgusting): https://www.mindbodygreen.com/articles/list-of-kinks?srsltid=AfmBOoqfex1kSY_QxTCsUin7TEW08w7vNaxYYW5wiIKcyhFhTEmvZpX8

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 1w

I would rather not speak on my own feitshes but I am talking stuff on this list (the stuff that most find gross but some find sexy for reasons I don’t know since I’m not an expert): https://www.mindbodygreen.com/articles/list-of-kinks?srsltid=AfmBOoqfex1kSY_QxTCsUin7TEW08w7vNaxYYW5wiIKcyhFhTEmvZpX8

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Anonymous replying to -> strawberry_hair 1w

Any gross thing mentioned on this link: https://www.mindbodygreen.com/articles/list-of-kinks?srsltid=AfmBOoqfex1kSY_QxTCsUin7TEW08w7vNaxYYW5wiIKcyhFhTEmvZpX8

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 1w

There’s a huge difference between some of this list and others. For example: BDSM verse furry play or mummification

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