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Ask Women 3w
Guys I need help, when I get drunk I keep fighting with my bf because of his girl friends. they’re all girls he’s liked or they’ve liked him and they just will text or snapchat or call sometimes. idk what wrong with me & why I can’t let it go 😭any advice
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Anonymous 3w

See I have a lot of guy friends and my bf has girl friends AND we were long distance for 3 years and now on our way to planning a wedding. Read the let them theory it will change ur life and perspective about this situation. But I think the key is boundaries. We have these friends but we are not talking or hanging out all the time. Also we are comfortable with who the other is friends with. U have to trust him but if him and the girls have given u reason not to, then u have every right to feel

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Anonymous 3w

That relationship sounds toxic

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 3w

Uncomfortable and ask him to not spend as much time with them. If he doesn’t respect that then I think u need to leave him. The key to a healthy relationship is being confident in who you are as a person and allowing situations u can’t control to not control u. Feel free to IM me if u wanna talk more bc i feel like i could help but i feel like more details are needed😂

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