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I forgave my bf of a year so MANY times for his mess ups. I traveled to see him 4 times since may and he hasn’t came to visit me once. he broke up with me on Friday. I’m so hurt and betrayed. How do you even begin to get over this? he texts me still
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Anonymous 4w

Step one is to stop texting him I know that much

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Anonymous 4w

You need to block him. Some people will abuse your kindness or inability to stand up for yourself and walk all over you.

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Anonymous 4w

Block him, delete/trash everything of him that you have, go out for a walk afterwards, have a snack or a meal, journal, talk to your friends/family about it, and refocus your attention on hobbies you’ve enjoyed and want to learn more about. It’s not easy, but you only need to take one step a day🤍

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Anonymous 4w

You have to block him out of your life. Block and delete his number. Remove him from any social media. Etc. I had something kinda similar happen to me. I only got the strength to do it after I saw her posting her new man all over. It hurt like a bullet to the chest. Spare yourself the same feeling.

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 4w

I know, I’m going to try my hardest to not respond to his texts.

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 4w

Delete his number and the text conversations. It’s really easy then

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Anonymous replying to -> #7 3w

This! You have to!

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