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Ask Women 17h
Ladies, have any of you worn a fake engagement ring to ward off unwanted attention. And if so, does it work?
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Anonymous 17h

I do it it does work, my mom thought I was engaged to my boyfriend when she saw it

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Anonymous 16h

I recently tested it and it does. If they don’t notice it all you have to do is show your hand and they’ll leave you alone. I used to go around saying I have a bf to ward off attention and it wasn’t working because I was by myself so there was “no bf to exist”

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Anonymous 11h

I have a real engagement ring and still get bothered 🫩

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Anonymous 15h

It depends. When I was engaged, the creeps backed off, but I did have some guys still desperately try which was even weirder

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Anonymous 6h

Doesn’t matter if the ring is real or fake, some men go for it anyways smh

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 17h

Does it raise questions tho. I keep getting hit on, and if someone were to stalk I have a bf and all but it’s not like I’d have engagement pics or anything. I just wanna quit getting hit on tbh but I’m scared if I find an actual safe person they’ll think I’m crazy

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 17h

Wdym by safe person?

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 17h

Someone who I actually like and know they won’t be like creepy towards me.

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 17h

If they are freaking out over that they are not a safe person

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 17h

That’s true. I just don’t want people to think I’m a weirdo when starting a new job

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 15h

Well at my last internship i actually had my supervisor invite me to twin peaks over the weekend. (It’s basically a hooters where they wear even less clothes)

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 15h

At that point, the ring should work. If not, you offer to invite fiance. That should scare them off. If not, go to a nearby gym, and ask the most jacked woman you can find to be your fiance. I find that puts men in their place 😂

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 15h

I basically attract sexual harassment and constantly am sexualized by both men and women and I just want it to stop. Genuinely I’d do anything to just to be left alone and allowed to exist comfortably.

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 15h

Try the ring. Hopefully it’ll work for you. If not, make sure you can comfortably punch with it

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