Ask Women on Sidechat | I feel like I accidentally forced my partner into sex. I asked him multiple times if he was comfortable and said we could stop if he wanted to but he kept saying he was fine but now he’s acting standoffish. I should’ve just stopped. How can I apologize?

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Ask Women 1d

I feel like I accidentally forced my partner into sex. I asked him multiple times if he was comfortable and said we could stop if he wanted to but he kept saying he was fine but now he’s acting standoffish. I should’ve just stopped. How can I apologize?

Anonymous 1d

If he said he was fine with continuing that’s consent. You also asked multiple times to make sure

Anonymous 1d

you definitely need to talk about this with him but it doesn’t sound like you “forced” him. of course an enthusiastic yes is better than an it’s fine but he could’ve also said no so i don’t think you did something awful or anything

Anonymous 1d

My ex gf would do this and then eventually she gaslit me into thinking i was abusing her ab it :/ definitely talk to him ab this sooner rather than later

Anonymous

#3 10h

Would you say the same if the roles were reversed? I’m worried about this happening to a future partner and I’m a guy. I’ve thought about this a lot and I’d probably stop in the middle if I wasn’t sure. As somebody who’s been SAed (after directly saying no multiple times) I’d probably feel really awful if something like this did happen.