Anonymous #1 1d

I swear I have no criminal record and I only gave her my first name when giving her my number

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Anonymous OP 1d

lmaoo

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Anonymous #2 1d

I suggested grabbing coffee at a popular coffee shop downtown and going for a walk around the area. She had initially suggested going to a restaurant but I suggest coffee + walk after and she never got back to me. Not sure it has anything to do with that

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Anonymous OP 1d

that might be it

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Anonymous #3 1d

Why?

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Anonymous #2 1d

maybe she took it as a sign of low interest or effort

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Anonymous #3 1d

Should I follow up with her or suggest something else?

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Anonymous #3 1d

I just didn’t want an expensive first date. I have always liked my first date to be more casual like going for coffee

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Anonymous OP 1d

just wait a lil in case she’s busy and thats why hasn’t responded

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Anonymous #3 1d

I don‘t get why a woman would just ghost cuz she doesn’t like a guy’s date suggestion. Are women rlly that fickle?

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Anonymous #2 1d

im just guessing? there could be other reasons but also she doesn’t owe him anything and can end things for any reason she wants. they met one time

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Anonymous #3 1d

Of course, and I would have no issue with her just telling me that she doesn’t see me romantically. But I just don’t get why she is ghosting me after my date suggestion

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Anonymous OP 1d

just wait another day and follow up. if she still doesn’t respond i would move on and just forget it

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Anonymous #3 1d

Yeah I’ll probably do that. Just from your POV why do you think she is doing this? Any ideas?

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Anonymous #3 1d

Yeah. But just tell him you‘d rather not do that date idea. I would be fine w/ that

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Anonymous #2 1d

bruh ppl have lives and other things to do. its only been a day. its not that deep

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Anonymous #3 1d

As u can tell I‘m traumatized from this 🤷‍♂️😭

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