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It has been almost 3 years since I got laid. I’ve tried the dating apps, I’ve tried to let things happen naturally. I’ve had flings but they all fell through before anything sexual would’ve happened. I think I am going to just focus on myself any advice?
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Anonymous 1d

i think focusing on yourself is always good and it will likely help find more prospects long term too

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Anonymous 19h

What do u look like roughly? I’m not asking in a mean way but this has literally never been a problem for me but im a woman, idk if ur a man or not. Mind you, im pretty sure i got a good face card but im a little chubby (not conventionally attractive body proportions)

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Anonymous 17h

send us a pic?

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 1d

Thanks!

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 19h

I’m a 5 foot 7 inch dude, broad shoulders, stocky. I’ve been fat for a bit but dropped 40 pounds this summer

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 19h

So roughly 210 pounds right now

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 19h

Of muscle or fat? Also how’re your teeth and do u have acne? Also whats ur personality like with women

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 18h

I am more muscle than fat now, my teeth are straight, no acne. I try to be funny mostly

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 18h

Are your teeth CLEAN though? It’s less about straight teeth and more ab whitish teeth that look clean and not grimy. No girl wants to kiss someone who has grime on it from not brushing. Also make sure you smell good, other than that I’m not sure why you’re not finding a girl. Maybe stop searching for sex specifically and search for friendships in social settings

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 18h

My teeth are a tiny bit yellow, but I brush every day so they are clean. I smell good. I think you are right I just have to pay more attention to social settings

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