I’d leave him and find a guy who keeps telling me “you’re my everything, my life partner” “I already consider you my wife” and yes my bf does tell me these things and we’ve only been together for 9 months don’t settle girl there are guys out there who actually want something serious

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Didn't you already ask this yesterday? Its always going to be leave him

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That’s weird and sounds like he isn’t really serious

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He’s seeing someone else or you might be a place holder

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I reflect on if I’m sure about him and what long term looks like to me. I currently love someone but I’m not sure I want to build a future with him. Mind you, we’ve only been dating for four months so it’s perfectly normal. 1. Does this person match what I’m looking for in a partner? 2. Does this person listen and connect with me when we encounter issues (do I feel heard/seen/understood 75% of the time) 3. Is there enough positive in the relationship to continue staying and choosing them

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