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My boyfriend went to a girls house to pick up his friend when we were arguing without telling me
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Anonymous 15w

A lot more context is needed. Whos the friend?

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Anonymous 15w

Okay

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Anonymous 15w

Like he sat in the car and picked him up or like he went in the house

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 15w

And?

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 15w

Asking if this is bad or not idk he hasn’t done this before

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 15w

You didn’t ask a question?? You just posted a situation??

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 15w

Advice

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 15w

It’s one of his closest buddies. He didn’t have anyone to take him home

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 15w

That’s what he said, I didn’t know that when I posted this

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 15w

I don’t see how that’s a bad thing

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 15w

It’s just out of the ordinary

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 15w

Which one? I asked which one it was

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 15w

Sorry waited in the car

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 15w

Then I’m confused on the issue. He picked up a friend from a house and didn’t even get out of the car. If you’re seeing this as an issue either there’s more to this story that you’re not sharing that would make you more suspicious or you’re insecure and need to get therapy. Not saying that to be condescending or anything, but insecurity like that can ruin relationships if left unchecked

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 15w

It was just not normal behavior coming from him it felt off

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 15w

Why does it feel that way? I think we are missing a lot of context here.

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 15w

My boyfriend is very introverted. He doesn’t go out a lot. He doesn’t hang out with people a lot, which I didn’t care if he did, but whenever he does, he kind of just tells me and we have been arguing probably one of the worst arguments we’ve had and then all of a sudden I see that he’s at this person’s house and then he went to another person’s house and I asked him why and he said he was over there to pick up his friend and bring them home but yeah

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