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Ask Women 9w
If your partner opened up ab having anger issues and urges, what are things you would want to hear that could help reassure you? I thought since I had a handle on it I didn’t need to bring it up, but I def found small releases of it in past relationships
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Anonymous 9w

I would like to hear that he’s in therapy and doing lots of work to improve. I don’t want another man like my dad in my life. If he’s not actively trying to work through it I would leave

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Anonymous 9w

It’s something I feel like I need to bring up so I can be help accountable if small things slip past me again and don’t get thought of as quirks that have to be put up with

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Anonymous 8w

It seems like you’ve done a lot to improve yourself, great work! I’m sure that would be very encouraging to a partner!

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 9w

Things I’ve done to work on it / myself in general: - Gone to therapy - Quit porn - Quit weed - Strong limits on alcohol - Apologized to friends I’ve hurt in the past

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 9w

Also I’ve never actually hit anyone

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 9w

That makes sense, the whole reason I feel the need to bring it up to them is because I want to put in check if I accidentally slip up, so I can work on it

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