this is a really big green flag for girls who have the same standards. beating lust is crazy hard and honestly a huge achievement and from my experience allows two people in a relationship to build something off of actual connection instead of just physicality

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Honestly it concerns me that you don’t have a healthy relationship with masturbation and sex, and I’d be worried that problems would arise come time to start having sex with eachother

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Idk I’ve not had sex in years but I’m not a virgin and I swear the longer I go without it the less excited I get about doing it again but maybe that’s just me

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it just comes across as weird to me, but I'm not religious so I know I'm not the target audience

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Yeah no thank you. Anyone who’s waiting until marriage is probably very religious (and I would guess Christian as well) and I don’t want anyone super religious. Also I think/ view sex as a natural thing. By waiting I feel that creates unrealistic expectations. I wouldn’t wait until marriage to have sex with my partner.

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that’s awesome, i still wouldn’t date someone like that bc ur not also a virgin waiting for marriage but good for you

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