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It’s crazy he doesn’t know how much he is hurting me
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Anonymous 18w

tell him

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Anonymous 18w

Script “When you do this/when this happens it makes me feel _____ because _____.”

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Anonymous 18w

Not a woman. Words. Use them. I beg.

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Anonymous 18w

If you have more days that you feel hurt then prob its better if you leave 🥺. You might wanna communicate but if it continued you got the answer…

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Anonymous 18w

I feel you

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Anonymous 18w

GIRL TELL US! WE LISTEN! By us I mean all of the commenters. I WANT THE TEA!

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Anonymous 18w

Unless you take some kind of romantic pleasure in this pain, you’re only hurting yourself with inaction.

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Anonymous 18w

He knows, he just doesnt care.

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Anonymous 18w

make him understand you

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Anonymous 18w

Even though u don’t want to you gotta hit that delete button

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Anonymous 18w

Separate for a season. It’s biblical.

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Anonymous 18w

girl leave him

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Anonymous replying to -> hellraiser 18w

They never care

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Anonymous replying to -> #5 18w

usually when they dont theres someone else that does

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Anonymous replying to -> #5 18w

then you leave

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Anonymous replying to -> forget_me_not 18w

The red flag response is “well i wouldnt have done ____ if you hadnt done _____.”

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Anonymous replying to -> #15 18w

EXACTLY! Its always conditional 😭

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Anonymous replying to -> #15 18w

If that’s the red flag you have 2 ways of dealing 1. Talk about how you’re trying to not do ___ 2. Thank them for bringing attention to it and open the conversation up more about why it bothers them, really get to the root of what they’re FEELING when you do ____ 3. Get a professional involved (friends can help but they GOTTA like both of you equally)

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