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If you were with your avoidant ex for 3 years, he broke up with you and then dated someone else and then came back and you LET him and then date him for 3.5 more years before he left again, would he still miss me and love me or no (we’re both blocked😂😂)
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Anonymous 1d

I need a chart for this

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Anonymous 1d

Why would you keep trying to be with someone who keeps leaving you and showing you over and over they don’t want you?

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Anonymous 1d

He’s using you as a gas station. Being with you for three years bc your familiar and then leaving when it gets “too real”

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Anonymous 1d

It was like reading a riddle

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Anonymous 1d

He might think about it or do it tbh, but you shouldn’t allow it to happen. Hes not worth shit babe. Find a new man It sounds like your end goal is getting him back, which is unwise, but even no think if it this way: you don’t want to look desperate or overeager. Go find a new man. Preferably one that treats you well and who you love

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 1d

Guys plz like would my ex still be thinking about me/possibly come back again if he’s left twice and we were together for 6 years

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 21h

He comes back and while we are together it seems like he really loves me but it jsut feels like I’m too crazy to be with

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Anonymous replying to -> #5 21h

Like he doesn’t actually take me seriously just someone to pass time with?

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 21h

Yep

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 20h

My ex would do this to me and left so I found people who made me feel like I was enough and even when I’m too much they love it cause it’s me, so girl stand up! your people and your person are out there and someone who loves you wouldn’t keep doing this to you or making you feel like this. You’re never too much for the right person.

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Anonymous replying to -> #5 17h

Even for 6 years

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 17h

Yes

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Anonymous replying to -> #5 17h

I’ve got a friend like this, he and I are besties who fuck until he finds a girlfriend. We’ve been this way for 8 years. It’s fine because I do the same shit

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