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Why do people automatically assume I’m a bitch? I’m really nice, sweet, and caring. 😫
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Anonymous 1w

Maybe resting bitch face

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Anonymous 1w

I have a rbf, everyone always assumed I was mean 😔💔

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Anonymous 1w

Maybe they’re insecure, orve been through it before, or maybe it has nothing to do with you, they’re just having a bad day?

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Anonymous 1w

No shade but every woman I’ve met that says this is a bitch. Like not saying you are, but in my experience it’s been that.

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Anonymous 1w

Well there’s gotta be a reason if multiple people think that, are you saying anything to them? How do you know they think you’re a bitch?

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 1w

I’m always smiling lol!

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 1w

Hm 🤔 idk then

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 1w

Nah she def got RBF until someone speaks to her

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 1w

? u know this how lol

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 1w

Bc the ones that smile a lot are the scariest ones when they’re focused or thinking about something 😭

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 1w

I’m not like that at all. I’m genuinely a happy person. Sure, I may still be tired and not the friendliest if it’s super super early in the morning.

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Anonymous replying to -> #8 1w

❤️

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 1w

Its not a diss, pretty women when they’re focused are just scary😂

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Anonymous replying to -> sad_gothic_barbie 1w

I’ve been told by friends that some people have said that. Also, some people in my cohort thought that until they actually get to know me.

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Anonymous replying to -> #5 1w

lol, soo you’re just saying in a round about way that I’m a bitch? So much for sisterhood. Don’t judge one person on previous experiences from others….. maybe it’s not them, it’s you and your personality. 🤷🏼‍♀️

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 1w

Yeah i mean it could literally just be what they are saying above, rbf, go look in the mirror and see how you be looking.

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 1w

I’m saying if the people in your life think you’re a bitch, maybe you should examine why, and actually examine, not “I’m so nice but people think I’m a bitch? Why????” examine

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Anonymous 1w

No really.

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Anonymous 1w

She was literally calling me a bitch. But ok. I’m not a narcissist nor am I ever mean to people. My response wasn’t even mean.

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 1w

I didn’t call you anything babe

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Anonymous replying to -> #5 1w

Don’t call me “babe” 😒

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 1w

Whatever sis. I recommend you take a long look at yourself and ask what you may intentionally or unintentionally be doing that make people think your a bitch

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Anonymous replying to -> #5 1w

Sweetie, you don’t have to be rude and condescending. You can give advice without the attitude. Like I said, I’m a really nice person and once people get to know me, they can see it.

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 1w

Maybe it’s the part BEFORE they get to know you that is causing the issue. Like, are you initially rude? Do you thank your cashier/server/parking attendant/drive thru person? Cuz if you don’t, you’re a low-key bitch. And that shit’s loud af.

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Anonymous replying to -> #9 1w

Why I would be rude to people for no reason, especially those in service based roles? I’m in PA school and don’t want anyone treated badly. I’m genuinely a nice and happy person. 🙂

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Anonymous 1w

You have a lot to say about me. You’re not perfect. You’re a judgmental ass. You can just throw digs at someone and not expect them to defend themselves.

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Anonymous 1w

When did post ever say “judge me”? I’d advise you to just shut up and leave me alone. I don’t mind giving critique but you’re just a rude guy.

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Anonymous 1w

Go to hell, you weirdo loser!

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Anonymous 1w

You’re one of those women that hates other women because they’re pretty, smart, and people like them for who they are. I’m sorry I’m not you. Sure, people may think I’m a bitch initially but, once they get to know me, I’m well liked because I have a good soul. Good night sweetheart. God bless your soul! I hope you can turn that anger into something positive.

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