Anonymous basedgigatruecel 18w

So respecting myself and women makes me a simp?

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Anonymous basedgigatruecel 18w

This is cringy

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Anonymous #4 18w

Bro rants on this thread a lot about women not liking men and how he can’t get a girlfriend

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Anonymous basedgigatruecel 18w

Simp for treating women like the actual other human beings that they are rather than a prize to obtain?

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Anonymous basedgigatruecel 18w

I’m so fucking sick of men like you trying to drag other struggling men into your cult of misery. You are either being played by a larger movement designed to prey on men’s insecurities, or you are an active agent in this process. Either way you are hurting men and it’s so fucking slimy that you present yourself as an ally to men’s mental health

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Anonymous #12 18w

Bruh he reported my other comment because he couldn’t handle the truth

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Anonymous #12 18w

Thats pathetic tbh.

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Anonymous #6 18w

It’s ironic because I was validating men’s real struggle with loneliness in my other comment and he still didn’t like it. Two things can be true at once but these guys use grains of truth to disguise black-and-white nihilism

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Anonymous #6 18w

We HAVE to keep talking about men’s mental health in a constructive way or else predatory actors will weaponize the narrative for their own ends

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Anonymous #12 18w

Men really need to take control of this conversation in a positive way like OP is

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Yeah I get that bro, but you have to recognize when it’s not serving you

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What did I tell you on the other post?

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Think in the grey area, not everything is black and white

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Anonymous OP 18w

Exactly. It may not be easy for everyone but it’s like a muscle you have to exercise

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Anonymous #12 18w

Not online is it healthier but it’s a way to see reality more accurately

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You can still feel your feelings, it’s what you do with them and what conclusions you draw that count in the end. It’s ok to feel rejected. It’s not okay to lash out at people who have nothing to do with those who were unkind to you

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Anonymous #12 18w

Not only*

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If you listen to the OP who is a woman cosplaying a man you’ll never see any change lmao. Ask you self this, did the OP put all this “work” with an indefinite time frame to date or did they just always date like everyone else 😂

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Anonymous #13 18w

So is everyone who disagrees with you a secret woman

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Anonymous #12 18w

It’s the way the speak and write. If I told you I was a woman would you believe me at face value?

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Anonymous #13 18w

I’m 100% a guy lol. I’m just self aware, that’s all. I’m not perfect nor will I ever be. All it takes is time, patience, and intentionality to do better

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Anonymous OP 18w

And be better

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Anonymous #13 18w

But how else would they say where they’re coming from in this context

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I’m wishing the best for you 🙏

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Anonymous #13 18w

I’ve had my fair share of experiences with women, none of them are as bad as you guys are making them to be

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Anonymous OP 18w

Maybe some are tbh, not everyone’s perfect, but a good amount aren’t

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Anonymous OP 18w

Hey there are bad women out there, I don’t want to invalidate those experiences. But I do think those experiences are inflated in online narratives to fuel negative emotions/algorithms ☹️

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Anonymous #12 18w

Yea I caught myself right after I posted it. There are definitely some bad women out there, we don’t like them

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Anonymous #12 18w

One of the first lessons of media literacy is that if something makes you feel a strong emotion, take a step back: someone is out there trying to manipulate you

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Anonymous OP 18w

Just be real and own up to the fact that “work” wasn’t a prerequisite to you dating lmao. Most people don’t put the “work” in and most of the work you prescribe has no bearing on attracting more women lmao

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Anonymous #13 18w

Some people don’t have to work much, some people do

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Anonymous #12 18w

“Work” meaning?

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Anonymous #13 18w

Not sure where you’re coming from. Lowkey it seems like you’re trying to bait a debate, which I’m not interested in right now

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Anonymous #12 18w

Well I wasn’t talking to you originally so perhaps you should know your place if your unwilling to elaborate 💀

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Anonymous #13 18w

Effort. Have your own passions/hobbies, go outside a good amount, talk to people, and be fun to be around. You still have to talk to women for you to attract them

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Anonymous #13 18w

You did reply to me lol. But this response only confirmed my suspicion that you’re trying to turn this into verbal combat lmao

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Anonymous #13 18w

I’m no dating or personal development coach but that’s my experience with dating, take it or leave it

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Anonymous OP 18w

You do realize there are many people who do all these things and it has nothing to do with getting a girlfriend? Like can you even admit that? The overwhelming majority of relationships start online and those things are not going to increase the amount of women who will want to go out with you

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Anonymous #13 18w

Maybe just stop being so insufferable

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Anonymous #12 18w

You think to highly of yourself I’d gain nothing talking to you about this topic

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Anonymous #13 18w

??

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Anonymous #13 18w

I know, that advice was specifically for two other guys in who were commenting under this post. I was reiterating what I said to them to you. I’m not talking to the masses here

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Anonymous #9 18w

Oh so you’re saying if I speak write differently on here then I’ll get more matches right? 😂

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Anonymous #13 18w

Point flew over your head faster than a falcon diving a pigeon

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Anonymous OP 18w

I’m glad we can agree then

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Anonymous #9 18w

Feel free to enlighten me then since I didn’t understand

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Anonymous #13 18w

Effort doesn’t guarantee result. It only changes the odds

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Anonymous #13 18w

Glad we can agree too

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Anonymous #12 18w

Ironically that’s the crux of my point. The effort being suggested changes the odds so little it doesn’t matter if it’s done or not lol

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Anonymous #13 18w

Well then we’re just gonna have to disagree on that point

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Anonymous #12 18w

I mean if you think intangible things that are not noticeable by looking at a person are enough to make them go from zero to hero then you probably don’t realize what is at the crux of initial attraction (which is where these people are failing)

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Anonymous #13 18w

It doesn’t have to bring you from zero to hero, it just has to provide you with an “in” to connect with someone. Although I will agree with you that physical attraction is very important for dating apps. You will want to work on that aspect if you want success in that environment. But I would recommend meeting people organically over dating bc apps, especially for men

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Anonymous #13 18w

Initial attraction is important but for women it seems to work a bit differently. Men who are attractive have an easy “in,” but average or below average men can charm women with personality and shared interests. I’ve seen a lot of below average guys pull just by being funny and good-natured

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Anonymous #12 18w

And their gfs are actually attracted to them because their enjoyable personalities highlight their good features, yk? Attraction is complicated

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Anonymous #13 18w

But either way, these are good improvements to invest in because they will increase your quality of life. Self-improvement is best pursued for one’s own fulfillment, not to meet someone else’s criteria. Meeting someone is an incidental benefit. I wish you good luck

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Anonymous #13 18w

so what should they do? yall keep telling men not to listen to this but genuinely what is the other option? force women into relationships that they dont want?

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Anonymous #14 18w

Wdym force there is no such thing as forcing women into relationships in the first world unless you are talking about crimes. There are choices to be made but I’m not sure if it’s even worth elaborating them to a person without said issues

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