Anonymous civilwar 5w

Keep working then man.

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Anonymous civilwar 5w

Don’t listen to them. They just want you to put your head down, “keep working”, and ignore the fact that this is a rigged game. They want you to hate and blame yourself, not them, even though all the stats clearly show that women are more picky than ever. They want you to just get out of their sight and keep playing the rigged game so you don’t wake up to the truth, that way they can continue to ignore your valid concerns

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Anonymous username4444 5w

It’s no different than complaining about being paid a shitty unlivable wage, and the boss just tells you “get back to work!” That’s what these women are doing, and it’s so ironic because most of them are liberal and would speak out against the “just get back to work” rhetoric, but when it comes to men, they become the exact people they claim to hate. They become elitist and view you as far lesser than them

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Anonymous civilwar 5w

Also try not to be chronically online. Trust me, I’ve been there. Online opinions and experiences about women shouldn’t shape your opinion about them. Experience it for yourself

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Anonymous username4444 5w

Lmfao this is funny coming from the guy who complains about not getting women. You're putting yourself into that headspace nobody else is. Its not women's responsibility to cater to you nor is it men's responsibility to cater to you. The same advice goes for you too stop being chronically online.

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Anonymous #6 5w

You’re literally proving my point. You’re saying that our suffering is funny, and the solution is to just get off the phone and stick our head in the sand to the reality of the situation When women make posts hating on men for their height, or being ugly, or having a small dick, or saying KAM, and getting millions of likes, should we just ignore that and pretend it doesn’t exist, when it clearly does? And why are we the bad ones for calling it out, and not those women for being so evil?

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Anonymous username4444 5w

Whose fault is it that you're in this situation? You're sitting here trying to blame everyone else but yourself when you got your own fingers pointing back at you. Shit sucks sometimes but you gotta pick yourself up again and continue on. You're prolly gonna respond with some more excuses for why you're in your situation

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Anonymous username4444 5w

Bro delete social media, go outside, and touch grass . Women mainly say that kinda stuff on social media. Please, actually talk to a women

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Anonymous #6 5w

I’m literally in the middle of a workout while writing this, I save up all my money, I’m starting my own business soon, I’m investing, I’m taking care of my disabled mother, and I’m working full time, but go ahead, go ahead and tell me how I’m still not doing enough? Tell me why girls would rather date alcoholic wife beaters rather than guys like me? I’ll tell you why. It’s because of looks.

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Anonymous OP 5w

You’re literally proving my point 😂 just stick my head in the sand and ignore it yeah? Just be a good little boy and ignore the women saying KAM and such right? I’m the bad guy for calling it out Also how do you think I even grew to know this stuff anyway? Spoiler: it was by actually talking to women and hearing how they viewed men

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Anonymous username4444 5w

Based on your post history Im gonna guess you're the indian dude that complains that no woman wants you bc you're quote "a khhv". And that's fantastic that you have all of those things happy for you. However your attitude and mindset hits all the red flags of "Im an incel". You're sitting here sounding exactly like polisci, now known as fenian complaining into the void. And I think you're assuming a lot of things about women and what they want in a partner.

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Anonymous username4444 5w

Yea, ignore it. Those kinds of girls aren’t the kinds of girls you want anyway. The KAM movement is wrong and I don’t agree with it but at the end of the day it doesn’t affect my life because I don’t let it. You need to meet new women.

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Anonymous basedgigatruecel 5w

So respecting myself and women makes me a simp?

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Anonymous basedgigatruecel 5w

This is cringy

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Anonymous #4 5w

Bro rants on this thread a lot about women not liking men and how he can’t get a girlfriend

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Anonymous #6 5w

Yes I’m the half Indian not the full one. And I never say these things irl because I’m not stupid, I know how people get angry when they hear the truth. No woman irl thinks I’m an incel, they just think I’m a nice spoken and chill guy. That still doesn’t change anything though. I’m still a KHHV. It’s nothing to do with my attitude, people praise me all the time with how calm and considerate I am, I do everything without complaint. I’m doing everything right by the books. It doesn’t matter—

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Anonymous username4444 5w

—though, women would rather date these maniac loser guys who beat the shit out of them, and then those same women come to tell me that I need to fix my personality? LOL Tell me a better joke

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Anonymous basedgigatruecel 5w

Simp for treating women like the actual other human beings that they are rather than a prize to obtain?

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Anonymous username4444 5w

3 people start talking on a post. One is whining about not having a relationship not realizing that its not a checklist of things you need to do to get one. One is trying to actually help. And the other is ready pure stupidity coming from the first. The third person realizes that some people aren't worth their time and decides to just watch the first continue to blame everyone but themselves

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Anonymous #6 5w

Which one am I?

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Anonymous civilwar 5w

You're not part of this joke even though you wanna be a part of everything polisci

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Anonymous #6 5w

Just checking 👍

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Anonymous #6 5w

I don’t need you to write riddles, just speak clearly. My points all still stand. What more do you want me to do? Are you saying I’m a worse guy than abusive criminals?

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Anonymous civilwar 5w

I want to give you and the @Username guy both some advice, bro to bro. People inherently want to like you. They don’t know you so you’re a blank slate to them. Don’t lie to them about who you are, but basically just reinvent your self and try new things to be cool to be around. That is if you both want girlfriends or more friends in general

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Anonymous OP 5w

That’s exactly what I don’t want to do, cuz that seems disingenuous. I’ve resisted the urge to just reinvent myself my whole life

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Anonymous civilwar 5w

What’s disingenuous is throwing your problems onto other people and expecting ppl to care when you do nothing about it. That’s selfish

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Anonymous username4444 5w

You asked for a better joke. Not my fault if you didn't find it funny \_O_/

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Anonymous civilwar 5w

I mean no “has” to reinvent themselves or change if they don’t want to. But you can’t expect new results if nothing changes. “Nothing changes if nothing changes”

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Anonymous OP 5w

No one**

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Anonymous OP 5w

I am who I am

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Anonymous civilwar 5w

I’m a history and politics nerd who reads and researches for fun

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Anonymous #6 5w

Don’t worry I accept your concession

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Anonymous username4444 5w

Lmao thats sad. Bros over here trying to play 4d chess while Im playing Minecraft

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Anonymous OP 5w

I don’t want to completely change my life

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Anonymous basedgigatruecel 5w

I’m so fucking sick of men like you trying to drag other struggling men into your cult of misery. You are either being played by a larger movement designed to prey on men’s insecurities, or you are an active agent in this process. Either way you are hurting men and it’s so fucking slimy that you present yourself as an ally to men’s mental health

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Anonymous #12 5w

Bruh he reported my other comment because he couldn’t handle the truth

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Anonymous #12 5w

Thats pathetic tbh.

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Anonymous #6 5w

It’s ironic because I was validating men’s real struggle with loneliness in my other comment and he still didn’t like it. Two things can be true at once but these guys use grains of truth to disguise black-and-white nihilism

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Anonymous #6 5w

We HAVE to keep talking about men’s mental health in a constructive way or else predatory actors will weaponize the narrative for their own ends

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Anonymous #12 5w

Men really need to take control of this conversation in a positive way like OP is

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Anonymous #12 5w

Maybe we’re all just guys who are autistic and tend to use black and white ways of thinking?

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Anonymous civilwar 5w

Yeah I get that bro, but you have to recognize when it’s not serving you

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Anonymous civilwar 5w

What did I tell you on the other post?

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Anonymous civilwar 5w

Think in the grey area, not everything is black and white

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Anonymous OP 5w

Exactly. It may not be easy for everyone but it’s like a muscle you have to exercise

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Anonymous #12 5w

Not online is it healthier but it’s a way to see reality more accurately

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Anonymous civilwar 5w

You can still feel your feelings, it’s what you do with them and what conclusions you draw that count in the end. It’s ok to feel rejected. It’s not okay to lash out at people who have nothing to do with those who were unkind to you

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Anonymous #12 5w

Not only*

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If you listen to the OP who is a woman cosplaying a man you’ll never see any change lmao. Ask you self this, did the OP put all this “work” with an indefinite time frame to date or did they just always date like everyone else 😂

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Anonymous #13 5w

So is everyone who disagrees with you a secret woman

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Anonymous #12 5w

It’s the way the speak and write. If I told you I was a woman would you believe me at face value?

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Anonymous #13 5w

I’m 100% a guy lol. I’m just self aware, that’s all. I’m not perfect nor will I ever be. All it takes is time, patience, and intentionality to do better

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Anonymous OP 5w

And be better

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Anonymous #13 5w

But how else would they say where they’re coming from in this context

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I’m wishing the best for you 🙏

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Anonymous #13 5w

I’ve had my fair share of experiences with women, none of them are as bad as you guys are making them to be

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Anonymous OP 5w

Maybe some are tbh, not everyone’s perfect, but a good amount aren’t

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Anonymous OP 5w

Hey there are bad women out there, I don’t want to invalidate those experiences. But I do think those experiences are inflated in online narratives to fuel negative emotions/algorithms ☹️

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Anonymous #12 5w

Yea I caught myself right after I posted it. There are definitely some bad women out there, we don’t like them

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Anonymous #12 5w

One of the first lessons of media literacy is that if something makes you feel a strong emotion, take a step back: someone is out there trying to manipulate you

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Anonymous OP 5w

Just be real and own up to the fact that “work” wasn’t a prerequisite to you dating lmao. Most people don’t put the “work” in and most of the work you prescribe has no bearing on attracting more women lmao

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Anonymous #13 5w

Some people don’t have to work much, some people do

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Anonymous #12 5w

“Work” meaning?

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Anonymous #13 5w

Not sure where you’re coming from. Lowkey it seems like you’re trying to bait a debate, which I’m not interested in right now

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Anonymous #12 5w

Well I wasn’t talking to you originally so perhaps you should know your place if your unwilling to elaborate 💀

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Anonymous #13 5w

Effort. Have your own passions/hobbies, go outside a good amount, talk to people, and be fun to be around. You still have to talk to women for you to attract them

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Anonymous #13 5w

You did reply to me lol. But this response only confirmed my suspicion that you’re trying to turn this into verbal combat lmao

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Anonymous #13 5w

I’m no dating or personal development coach but that’s my experience with dating, take it or leave it

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Anonymous OP 5w

You do realize there are many people who do all these things and it has nothing to do with getting a girlfriend? Like can you even admit that? The overwhelming majority of relationships start online and those things are not going to increase the amount of women who will want to go out with you

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Anonymous #13 5w

Maybe just stop being so insufferable

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Anonymous #12 5w

You think to highly of yourself I’d gain nothing talking to you about this topic

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Anonymous #13 5w

??

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Anonymous #13 5w

I know, that advice was specifically for two other guys in who were commenting under this post. I was reiterating what I said to them to you. I’m not talking to the masses here

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Anonymous #9 5w

Oh so you’re saying if I speak write differently on here then I’ll get more matches right? 😂

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Anonymous #13 5w

Point flew over your head faster than a falcon diving a pigeon

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Anonymous OP 5w

I’m glad we can agree then

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Anonymous #9 5w

Feel free to enlighten me then since I didn’t understand

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Anonymous #13 5w

Effort doesn’t guarantee result. It only changes the odds

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Anonymous #13 5w

Glad we can agree too

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Anonymous #12 5w

Ironically that’s the crux of my point. The effort being suggested changes the odds so little it doesn’t matter if it’s done or not lol

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Anonymous #13 5w

Well then we’re just gonna have to disagree on that point

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Anonymous #12 5w

I mean if you think intangible things that are not noticeable by looking at a person are enough to make them go from zero to hero then you probably don’t realize what is at the crux of initial attraction (which is where these people are failing)

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Anonymous #13 5w

It doesn’t have to bring you from zero to hero, it just has to provide you with an “in” to connect with someone. Although I will agree with you that physical attraction is very important for dating apps. You will want to work on that aspect if you want success in that environment. But I would recommend meeting people organically over dating bc apps, especially for men

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Anonymous #13 5w

Initial attraction is important but for women it seems to work a bit differently. Men who are attractive have an easy “in,” but average or below average men can charm women with personality and shared interests. I’ve seen a lot of below average guys pull just by being funny and good-natured

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Anonymous #12 5w

And their gfs are actually attracted to them because their enjoyable personalities highlight their good features, yk? Attraction is complicated

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Anonymous #13 5w

But either way, these are good improvements to invest in because they will increase your quality of life. Self-improvement is best pursued for one’s own fulfillment, not to meet someone else’s criteria. Meeting someone is an incidental benefit. I wish you good luck

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Anonymous username4444 5w

so what do you want women to do? the game being rigged isn't women's fault, and they aren't going to have sex with/be in relationships with men that they don't like.

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Anonymous #13 5w

so what should they do? yall keep telling men not to listen to this but genuinely what is the other option? force women into relationships that they dont want?

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Anonymous #14 5w

Wdym force there is no such thing as forcing women into relationships in the first world unless you are talking about crimes. There are choices to be made but I’m not sure if it’s even worth elaborating them to a person without said issues

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