Oh angel I’m so sorry this happened to you 💘 please take this seriously: IT IS NOT YOUR FAULT. Drinking, no matter how much, is NEVER an invitation for sex or sexual activity. She absolutely is at fault and knew what she was doing if she was dead sober

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Try not to think about it too much, but still take it seriously and file that report.

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Report ASAP

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It’s not your fault. You got drunk, you’re not responsible for other people’s actions. She knew what she was doing, she knew how drunk you were, and she took advantage of you

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Im late to this but please file that report. She took advantage of you and that’s not ok. It’s not your fault and I hope you heal someday

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It is not your fault, if you have a support system you feel comfortable talking about this with you should! They can stand by your side as you file this report. I wish you the best for health and healing!

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Definitely NOT your fault

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it was not your fault. we are taught in middle school that intoxicated means no, no matter what the intoxicated one may say in the moment. i recommend therapy. i also recommend picking up a new hobby. sometimes small changes can make your headspace feel completely different. don’t let it consume you, but address every feeling you have about it. don’t stuff it away. she’s disgusting, not you. be kind to yourself. you didn’t deserve that and getting some extra support might help a lot.

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as a fellow survivor of SA, it’s not your fault. never let anyone tell you differently. reach out to support systems if you can. that’s a heavy weight to carry and i’m sorry you had to go through that.

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Def not your fault also MAKE the report no one is going to look at you weird for that and if they do they aren’t your friend alsooo block her on EVERYTHING so there is no more contact opportunities

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That is not your fault whatsoever. She was sober and you were drunk. She knew what she was doing and knew you were drunk—that’s completely her fault and she needs to be locked up

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I can confidently tell you that this is not your fault, so don’t feel “dumb”. You were just having a good time and drinking. SHE should have know better then to push herself into you. Definitely report because she could do this again to someone else who isn’t in the right state.

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