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How do you think it feels to be told this?
8 upvotes, 14 comments. Sidechat image post by Anonymous in Ask Women. "How do you think it feels to be told this?"
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Anonymous 7w

Shit I’m so sorry, that’s a bunch of bs and whoever she is sucks, and that’s coming from a female

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Anonymous 7w

I used to hear that from guy friends pre-glow up, it really hurts. My self esteem is still recovering lowk. I’m sorry this is happening to you, sending virtual hugs.

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Anonymous 7w

You really can just say you’re not interested it’s not that hard 💀 I’d never do that unless they kept prying me on why but even then I’m not gonna be that mean about it. I’d just be like I don’t think we’d be compatible or like match

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Anonymous 7w

It feels pretty shitty. Why tf would she say this that’s just mean spirited

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Anonymous 7w

Personally, I wouldn’t be bothered by this, but I’d also never say it to someone. It’s mean, especially to people whose personalities I like. That being said, I don’t care about any looks including my own. Even with attraction it’s almost 100% personality. If ppl don’t like my looks, I don’t care.

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 7w

to be clear this isn’t my screenshot, but i’ve been told this in the past. thought it was just me, but it happens to a lot of guys apparently

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 7w

Well still, I think it’s bullshit to say that to a guy

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Anonymous 7w

i’m a bit shy sometimes but i always try to be kind and considerate to people, even when i feel like it won’t make a difference. thanks, it especially hurts to hear it from a friend.

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 7w

when this happened to me, it seemed like she meant it as a compliment. i guess i can see that angle, at least she thought i had a good personality lol

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 7w

in my case it wasn’t even prompted. she was my friend, and she was complaining about being single when she just decided to say that out of the blue

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 7w

i still think she probably meant well, even though it hurt, but i’m not really sure. that’s why i’m asking how people think it would feel to be told that

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 7w

Nah, you should never tell anyone that, it could really damage their self esteem

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 7w

Either she’s completely oblivious, or she knew that hearing it would hurt and just didn’t care

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 7w

wow.

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