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Ask Women 17h
my boyfriend won’t let me get an abortion, says it’s “his kid too” what do i do???
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Anonymous 17h

You dont actually need his permission to do it. Honestly if he cannot accept your personhood like that you shouldnt be dating

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Anonymous 17h

Do yall not talk to your partners about this stuff before having sex with them

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Anonymous 17h

Tell him that it’s your body and he’s not the one that’s gonna be pushing a literal child out of him

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Anonymous 17h

Do it anyway

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Anonymous 14h

Is it not

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 17h

he said i can just get a c section or whatever

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 17h

That’s not the point. It’s your body that’s going to be affected, it’s your health that’s going to be affected, yes I do think that there should be a conversation but if his only defense is that it’s his to then hell no. Is he going to help raise the kid, is he going to be able to finance the kid, is he going to stay true to you and the kid? In the end it’s your choice

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 17h

i’ll bring this up to him. thanks 😊

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 17h

Of course, be careful and stay safe

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