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Am I the only one who thinks having a celebrity crush or any crush while in a long term relationship is weird af? Cuz why are you fantasizing and drooling over someone else when you have a whole mans😭
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Anonymous 5w

Anyone who thinks celeb crushes are something to take seriously needs to look at themselves cuz 1 it’s never going to happen and 2 it’s not that deep

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Anonymous 5w

I think, acknowledging someone is attractive is way different from having a crush tho. The former is fine

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Anonymous 5w

When I have celebrity crushes it was never in a way that I drooled or fantasized. It was just I think this celebrity is attractive. Which led to just having a few celebrity crushes with no serious thought attached to it

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Anonymous 5w

I've never known anyone to drool or fantasize over a celebrity in that way. celeb crushes are more like an acknowledgment that out of all famous people, one in particular seems like your type. it's not like it's ever going yo go farther than that.

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Anonymous 5w

i agree its stupid, you should not be actively having crushes while in a relationship point blank. i don’t care who they are or whether or not you will ever meet them

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 5w

So just cuz it’s never going to happen means it’s fine? Why would you actually crush over someone other than your partner is something I don’t get. Like I said finding someone attractive is definitely different from a crush

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 5w

Oh your definition of a crush is just acknowledging someone is attractive?

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 5w

Seems like you type? Girl, you have a bf who should be your ideal type😭

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 5w

Given the chance you actually meet your celeb crush, would you pick him over your bf? Or do they seem more attractive than your bf?

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 5w

Would I cheat on my partner? No of course not

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 5w

In the way of celebrity crushes yeah. I’ve never taken them seriously compared to like, a regular guy I’ve liked

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 5w

I just think “oh yeah he’s really cute I like those kinds of guys”. But it’s usually always the character they play anyway and the personality the character has. Just the celebrity themselves are attractive to me. I’m not gonna actively dump someone over it

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 5w

Maam. This is a person that my partner is never going to meet. Yes it’s fine. It’s not like my partner is saying I would leave you for this person. A celeb crush is someone famous my partner finds attractive. Idk if you think just because you’re in a relationship your partner can’t think someone else is attractive cuz that’s unrealistic

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 5w

2) if your partner is saying yea I would definitely leave you for idris Elba and is serious about it then that’s different. You also have to keep in mind that is also something that cannot happen so it sounds like you have a little bit of insecure going on that you need to deal with

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 5w

Your parents probably have a celeb crush that the other parent knows about and doesn’t really gaf

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