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Is it normal my gf has this guy friend that might like her? They went on a date 2 years ago and liked eachother but both went out of state for college.. they’ll call/snap/text.. he also blocked her when I visited her bc they talked that I would be mad &
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Anonymous 2w

I personally would not be comfortable with my partner having a close friend if they had that kind of history together

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Anonymous 2w

That is not normal and tbh I would be pissed not about the fact that they stayed friends but more about the fact that she went out of her way to hide it from you. I wouldn’t be able to trust her if I was you

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Anonymous 2w

Not like that they are friends and talk. She never told me about him before ever until I saw him pop up in her phone and asked, then she told me all this. He also apparently will block or unadd her when he is talking to a new girl like when I went to visit her, he unadded her to “help” so I wouldn’t see him in her phone. I don’t want to be controlling but just am wondering if this is normal? I am protective over her so she didn’t wanna tell me bc I would get upset

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 2w

Also now that you added the context that she didn’t even mention it until you kinda accidentally found out about it is really sketch to me. I don’t feel the need to hide my male friends from my bf

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 2w

Right, I agree. I know she didn’t tell me about him because I wouldn’t like it but still, it’s all so sketch to me.

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 2w

I don’t think I can trust her anymore either.. she told me she would stop talking to him and would tell me when he adds her again and she lied about that too and told him she will still text him if he texts her. Is it best to go our separate ways you think? We have been together for 7-8 months..

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 2w

Yeah I would break up if I was you. And explain it to her that it’s not about talking to him and being friends it’s about her lying. Just tell her you don’t trust her and relationships don’t work without trust. There’s no point of dating if she’s not gonna be open and honest

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