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so i’ve liked a guy… for close to 3 years. we have know eachother since birth (literally born 2 days apart, same hospital) at what point is it appropriate for me to tell him i have feelings for him? he is EXTREMELY oblivious
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Anonymous 7w

Tell him immediately! Tell him before he gets with someone else and you’re left to wonder what might have been. That’s a rocky path to go down.

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Anonymous 7w

guys dont get the hint, be straight up and tell him

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Anonymous 7w

Be upfront about it but you also need to be ok with him potentially not having feelings for you and what that may lead to whether it’s no more friendship or you having to eventually potentially see him with someone else

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Anonymous 6w

Any update? Rooting for yall

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 7w

the biggest thing holding me back is the fact that i’m close w his sisters and family, obviously they’re family friends, so i am so so so scared that if things don’t go well i lose not only him as a friend but potentially his siblings too :(

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 7w

Maybe you should tell him anyway. Sometimes it’s best to say it then and there, rather than watch him move on with someone else. Tell me, how would that make you feel? I understand your concerns, however. You’re afraid of accidentally ending something good. In the meantime, try confiding in a loved one. Maybe they will have a good answer to your dilemma.

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 7w

valid, thx queen 🫶🫶🫶

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 7w

Anytime, girl! Comment here or DM me if you ever need anything else. Good luck! 👍

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 6w

well i texted him yesterday! but he hasn’t replied, to be fair i told him to take his time and we can talk when he’s ready, but it’s still making me anxious lol, but i see him tonight at a function we both regularly attend so it’s just a matter if he’s gonna approach me or not

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 6w

Thanks for the update! Good luck

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 6w

update: we talked last night and he doesn’t feel the same way :( he was so genuine and kind with his words though and honestly this outcome is one i am satisfied and happy with! i’d rather have peace knowing this is what it is than continue wondering what could have been

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