Anonymous #1 2w

And a straight man isn’t?

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Anonymous #2 2w

i feel like a straight man is a spectrum of hating or liking women

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Anonymous #1 2w

I’m a straight a guy and I am always torn between hating and liking women

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Anonymous OP 2w

*a straight man

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Anonymous strawberry_hair 2w

I identify as gay

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Anonymous OP 2w

“I’m a straight guy.” If you are trying to make some kind of shitty queer people can choose joke just leave.

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Anonymous strawberry_hair 2w

No, I just want to be seen the same way as the kind gay guys

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Anonymous strawberry_hair 2w

It was a dumb thing to say. I‘m just lonely and bored

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Anonymous OP 2w

Yeah that’s the thing. You literally said you are torn between “liking and hating women.” You clearly aren’t kind.

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Anonymous strawberry_hair 2w

I‘m kind deep down but have my demons

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Anonymous OP 2w

I feel like this is that poli guy I forgot his name

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Anonymous #4 2w

Yeah, it‘s me. I‘m a good guy, but loneliness makes me a jerk

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Anonymous OP 2w

I literally had an entire conversation with you. You should have listened.

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Anonymous OP 2w

Lowkey I would feel like this whole thing is u rage baiting but u spend an unhealthy amount of time doing it so it’s an issue either way

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Anonymous #4 2w

Like I said before, I‘m lonely

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Anonymous strawberry_hair 2w

I was a better person in the past, I listened to my friend, was there for her when others weren‘t, and yet she never liked me like I did her

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Anonymous OP 2w

Ya and no girl is going to want u with how u r rn. Either go to therapy like u said or just learn to be happy with urself first and stay off this app. Ur not going to get the validation or answers u crave so ur either a masochist and like people hating on u or u seriously need therapy. I’m not responding further and going in circles but u should seriously consider all the advice you’ve been getting on here

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Anonymous strawberry_hair 2w

Is it bc I don‘t know how to flirt? I don‘t engage in banter?

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Anonymous OP 2w

And no one’s obliged to like u back no matter how nice u r to them. Be kind out of ur own heart and stop expecting things in return bc no one owes u their feelings or a relationship

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Anonymous #4 2w

I was that way to her bc I liked her. A lot. And I thought she felt that way abt me too. I thought women liked having a bf who is lije their friend

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Anonymous OP 2w

Like

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Anonymous #4 2w

I don’t want validation anymore, I want u to tell me how I do things differently

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Anonymous OP 2w

Obv I need to be in s better mental state. But what do I do when I am in a better mental state?

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Anonymous OP 2w

I’ve fucking told you what you need to do. You need to stop disregarding women. Once again I am convinced you have never actually read a single thing anyone has ever said.

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Anonymous strawberry_hair 2w

I know I need therapy, now more than ever. This is the lowest I‘ve ever felt and I will see someone next week. But I am like this bc I have never dated. Somebody needs to tell me how to talk to women, cuz that’s why I got to this point. I was friends w/ a girl and it was after already talking to her for a while that I began to be incelish

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Anonymous strawberry_hair 2w

Am I supposed to just be friendly or do I need to be flirty?

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Anonymous OP 2w

Once again this is why. No one is going to want to date you when THIS is how you act. I spent a lot of time giving you information. Read that. Do anything besides bother the women here because this is what I meant when I said harassment.

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Anonymous strawberry_hair 2w

U unfairly judged me. I don’t act this way irl. I should have pushed back more. U had a point abt my selfishness, but that was it

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Anonymous OP 2w

I didn’t unfairly judge you. If anything I was remarkably gentle with you. You have no desire to change and you just want to bring others down with you.

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Anonymous strawberry_hair 2w

Bc I feel like I can’t change

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Anonymous OP 1w

Okay, all of the answers you need will be guided for you in therapy. Feelings are a two-way street. It’s hard that the girl you really liked didn’t like you back, but all of us have had people we like that didn’t like us back. There are 8.4 BILLION people in the world, all of them are not going to like us, no matter what we do, no matter how close we are, some people just won’t like us. That’s okay! Life is about finding people who do

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Anonymous OP 1w

You cannot hate all women because one that you put a lot of effort into didn’t like you in that way. You work on yourself, gain some SELF-motivation and confidence (therapy will help guide you through this), then eventually continue the search for so some who does like you back. Before looking for ANY woman, you need to learn to like YOURSELF.

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Anonymous #5 1w

Thanks. I’m going to see the doctor tomorrow and will mention therapy to her. Ik I need confidence

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Anonymous #5 1w

If you’ve noticed, I haven’t been posting my usual stuff on here for a bit

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