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My friend had a bad breakup earlier this year and he’s been slipping more and more into red pill ideology. He’s been saying really repulsive things about women and I don’t think I can be friends with him anymore.
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Anonymous 4w

Tell him straight up that his new ideology is the reason you cannot be friends anymore

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Anonymous 4w

We have been friends for 4 years and he helped me out when I was in a tight spot so I feel like I should at least try to help him. What should I do?

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Anonymous 4w

That’s a really complicated situation. Have you tried talking to him about it? What has he been saying?

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Anonymous replying to -> strawberry_hair 4w

No I’ve just been deflecting and changing the subject. He says shit like women have no value past 25, women are inherently manipulative, single moms are evil, etc.

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 4w

Wow okay that’s- yeah. I wouldn’t say he’s into red-pill content, I’d say he’s reached it. I would be plain with him. The way he talks about women is really gross. He is saying that you (as a woman) are being manipulating. Relate it back to you. If you don’t want to you don’t have to though. You can always tell him that you appreciated his friendship but he is saying things that are wrong and it’s making you not want to hang out or be friends anymore.

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Anonymous replying to -> strawberry_hair 4w

I’m a guy but yeah. Like does he feel that way about his mom too? Idk it’s all just so bizarre to me

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 4w

That may be your way into helping him find his way out of

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 4w

Oh I’m sorry, I just assumed. As a guy you actually have a better chance than a woman does. He’ll listen to you more readily than he would a woman.

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