
Not a girl, but have some experience helping people w this. Abs are made in the kitchen, so counting calories/macros (carbs, fat, protein) is good to track goals and make steady progress. My Fitness Pal is what I use. For exercise start with walking & work up. Long walks are a solid calorie burner, but if you wanna get toned HIIT (high intensity interval workouts) is a good way to go. Recommend dropping some weight prior tho, can leave loose skin if you drop weight too fast I BELIEVE IN YOU