Being a misogynist. Thinks they are "owed" anything romantic or sexual especially if I have made it clear I am not interested. Tries to sexually assault me. Calls me a bitch and threatens to off himself because I won't look at his unsolicited dick pic. Treats my friends badly. Treats people in service jobs poorly. Wants a trad wife but not to support a wife. "Doesn't do emotions". Doesn't clean up after himself. Purposely misunderstands people.

40

Weaponized incompetence/being incapable of doing very basic things

35

Poor grooming/hygiene, holds sexist/racist beliefs, no athleticism, never takes initiative, is only nice to women he wants to be with, kills bugs for no reason (especially if we’re outside, wtf? 😭), no sense of humor, no ambition or passion, only has online friends

30

having big dreams in life but doing nothing to actually accomplish them

16

When men complain about me not texting like i’m not the one carrying the convo everytime

15

When he uses AI to try and flirt with you

11

When a man makes a habit of taking more than he gives. I’m a giver so sometimes it takes me a while to notice but once I do, my brain starts tallying and it’s the beginning of the end.

8

vaping, smoking, any type of drugs, video gaming more than 2 hrs a day, getting black out drunk or regularly getting normal drunk, clubbing regularly, following any OF girls or a lot of normal girls who don’t follow him back, being part of hookup culture, making super performative instagram stories/posts (especially shirtless), acts in a feminine way instead of masculine

4