Ask Women on Sidechat | Can yall not downvote this but why are women usually mean to me after I stare at them and eventually walk up and talk to them like a normal person. For context I’m an out going friendly guy who has a resting bitch face, and I’m not ugly?

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Ask Women 2w

Can yall not downvote this but why are women usually mean to me after I stare at them and eventually walk up and talk to them like a normal person. For context I’m an out going friendly guy who has a resting bitch face, and I’m not ugly?

Anonymous 2w

I mean why do you mean by “mean” like do they actually say unkind things or is their manner just sort of hostile

Anonymous 2w

It can be a little scary sometimes, especially if she is alone. A lot of guys seem nice and friendly on the outside but they actually are not good people; you have to be very careful bc there’s no way to distinguish good from bad and the consequences of getting it wrong can be fatal. I also think it’s natural to be suspicious of someone who seems a little too friendly.

Anonymous 2w

Can I just get the honest answer I don’t say anything out of pocket really, usually just a compliment

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Anonymous 2w

Because they’re misandrist and self absorbed. They were raised with the mentality that they’re queens and you’re just a bug in their eyes

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Anonymous

#1 2w

Just like hostile and bitchy I swear I’m not ugly I’m just Asian so I can’t even come across as super aggressive

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Anonymous

OP 2w

I mean first of all as a man ewwww don’t use bitchy to describe women, second of all that’s different than actually being mean. Not everyone likes being approached in public, not everyone’s comfortable, with it sometimes it’s an annoying distraction to whatever they’re currently doing, sometimes they feel uncomfortable. you’re a stranger approaching them they’re not obligated to be super welcoming to you. For me I’m never super friendly bc it’s a good way to quickly shut down an interaction I

Anonymous

#1 2w

Don’t want to have. And If you’re like, staring at them for a while, first most likely they’re uncomfortable

Anonymous

#1 2w

“Stare at em…” Like chances that we are playing eye tag and I’m trying to holler at my girl?

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Anonymous

OP 2w

I mean are you “playing eye tag” or are you staring weirdly at a random women who is trying to avoid your uncomfortable gaze upon her

Anonymous

#1 2w

I look and look away not like staring staring but I stare like 3-4 times for 2 seconds

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Anonymous

OP 2w

Yeah if I’m out in public and a random guy is doing that to me I’m gonna feel weird af, no matter what they look like

Anonymous

OP 2w

just btw you being asian has absolutely nothing to do with how aggressive you come across, a man staring at you in public then coming up to you to compliment you is almost never a comfortable situation no matter who it is. you sound full of yourself and that's why they may act rude towards you, not because of your looks

Anonymous

#3 2w

Nah this is at bars sister where looking is fine

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Anonymous

jimmyincellerino 2w

Sorry are you a woman? Or are you trying to spread incel shit?

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Anonymous

#4 2w

Case in point ^^ Any man that mildly critiques something that a woman does is “incel shit” and gets insulted by her rather than her actually trying to have a conversation Rather than say “I’m a woman and I don’t view men like that, I’m okay if they approach me” you just said I’m an incel who’s spreading shit and refused to deny it, and just started insulting. And so you just proved my point. Thanks

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Anonymous

jimmyincellerino 2w

Im a man.

Anonymous

jimmyincellerino 2w

And you're sitting here making an assumption about women. Trying to use logical fallacies to try and prove your point. You claimed "they're misandrists and self-absorbed." Get off the fucking internet and maybe interact with a real human and see that your statement is false. If you're going to make claims like that back them up with legitimate sources.

Anonymous

jimmyincellerino 2w

Honestly a disappointment and insult to other men that you parade around here like this. Do better

Anonymous

jimmyincellerino 2w

Brother incel is in your user name

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Anonymous

#4 2w

Wow so you’re a man and you’re justifying women’s hatred of men? What a little simp, I’m sure your dms are loaded now aren’t they? And yeah, me getting off the “fucking internet” and being in the real world is how I know they are misandrists. This whole post and subject is about irl, did you read it? And the “insult to other men” is you bowing down to women’s hatred and attempting to justify it because you hate your own gender

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Anonymous

#1 2w

So what? He was saying incel insultingly not friendly

Anonymous

jimmyincellerino 2w

Wow! This is such a cope. And got my dms off bc I personally don't want to dm with anyone here. Im sorry that you don't understand how friendships and relationships work. But that doesn't give you the right to spread hatred. Now if you excuse me I gotta roll some dice. My dnd group is waiting for me. And your comeback was honestly pathetic. The only person that can help you is yourself. Are you going to stay in your cesspit or climb out?

Anonymous

jimmyincellerino 2w

it’s genuinely hilarious that your immediate response to a man with a brain is “you’re doing it so women DM you” on YY of all places. I can’t tell if you’re a real person, but I desperately hope you’re not.

Anonymous

OP 2w

Honest answer: they don’t want to be physically assaulted. Rudeness is self-defense. If they are rude to you, it means go away and leave them alone. Remember: you are worried that they will humiliate you, but they are worried that you will kill them. Your concerns are not the same. Approach at your own risk, and avoid staring for long periods of time.