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Why do y’all sexualize everything and every woman? We could just be living, walking down the street, and y’all sexualize us. Could wear a dress ‘cause we want to look nice, here y’all go. Then y’all use derogatory terms to describe us. Fcking eww
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Anonymous 1d

I too would like to apologize for my fellow men that have underdeveloped

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Anonymous 1d

We just don’t, small minority

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Anonymous 1d

As a man I’m sorry for this

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Anonymous 23h

I’ve always heard of locker room talk, but in my experience the vast majority of guys don’t talk about women that way. It wasn’t until I found a friend group of women that I heard extremely graphic details and opinions about other people in bed. Catcalling isn’t a gendered activity either. As a guy who often jogs shirtless (I live in a warm area), you might be surprised how often women roll down their window to shout something sexual.

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Anonymous 20h

I haven’t worn a dress in a while (I’m a man) but I want to

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Anonymous 16h

If a girl looks really good my mind automatically thinks bad shi and I have to remind myself to not and even if its just my private thoughts I have to consciously stop myself. I respect women tremendously, revealing stuff makes it a conscious effort sometimes but im willing to do it to be a good person

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 1d

Me trying to explain to my fellow college students that it’s only some men and not all and as much as it’s wrong I’m not going to apologize for something I personally didn’t do

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 1d

do u call out/push back against other men who do this? when we live in a society where this treatment of women is normalized, saying nothing when ur friends behave like this only works to keep things the same

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Anonymous replying to -> #5 1d

I call out my friends if they do it but there’s only one that has done it consistently and I don’t keep in touch with him anymore

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Anonymous replying to -> #5 1d

It isn’t normalized though. A couple frat guys doesn’t equal “normalized” when 99% of society can agree it’s bad

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 1d

its way more than just a couple of frat guys, women get put down and sexualized ALL THE TIME!! for you males it’s not always easy to pick up on since it can be subtle or even feel like natural conversation for you, but it still is a very frequent experience for all women

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Anonymous replying to -> #6 22h

i love sexualizing women and treated yall like objects for my sexual pleasure

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 21h

dude i’ve been told i had to cover up my body as young as 11. just bc u don’t notice it doesn’t mean it’s not happening.

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Anonymous replying to -> #6 18h

ALL THE TIME by the same few guys.

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