Ask Men on Sidechat | Boyfriend of over a year admits while drunk “I’m dating you with the intention of eventually not dating you” am I in the wrong for being absolutely devastated?

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Boyfriend of over a year admits while drunk “I’m dating you with the intention of eventually not dating you” am I in the wrong for being absolutely devastated?

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Anonymous 7w

No not in the slightest

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Anonymous 7w

He prolly meant like that he’s not dating to marry but geez that is a terrible way to put it 💀

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Anonymous 7w

This is probably far fetched but maybe he meant by “not dating you” as in marrying you just worded very very poorly? I think it’s fair to be devastated but I’d ask him for clarification and what he means

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Anonymous 7w

Bro let his true feelings slip, time to leave and move on.

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Anonymous 7w

Unless he means one day marry you then it’s time to jump ship

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Anonymous 7w

If he wasn’t implying he would marry you that’s crazy. I don’t date anyone who’s not interested in potentially getting married one day anyway. I’m too old for that shi

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Anonymous

#2 7w

But he knows I am dating to marry

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Anonymous

OP 7w

That’s terrible I’m sorry

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Anonymous

OP 7w

Most likely is just dating to date

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Anonymous

OP 7w

ask him what he meant by it, so that you can clarify

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Anonymous

amethyst_bacon 7w

He meant not dating me or marrying me

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Anonymous

vangogh 7w

That’s what he means

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OP 7w

Yeah I’d lowkey be gone if I heard those words. That’s actually crazy to say

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Anonymous

OP 7w

Does he really mean that or that he’s using you as a placeholder for his future wife?

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