
People often hate on people who are working on self-improvement, because if you’re working on yourself and they are not, it makes them feel insecure about their own lifestyle. And it’s easier for them to try to drag you back down than to put in the effort to lift themselves up. This is regardless of gender, too.
Personally I have a lack of respect and attraction towards fat women that don’t work on themselves but have a lot of respect and am always cheering for overweight women that are actively working hard to lose weight. Doesn’t mean I find them attractive yet tho but doesn’t mean they won’t at some point get to that point