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Is it too late to tell him I don’t want to have sex yet after going out with him 3x
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Anonymous 15h

it's never too late 🙏 don't ever feel pressured to have sex with someone you don't want to, and don't ever feel like you've lead them on for making the decision that's best for you. if this person is good for you they'll understand

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Anonymous 19h

Not too late at all, you should only do it when you really want to, feel safe and comfortable to, and think it's the right time, and it's also okay if that time is unclear to you right now or never. If he's a good person, he'll always respect your boundaries and value having your consent. If he gets upset or lashes out, that'd prove he is a rapist or has a rapist like mentality and you should stay far away from him

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Anonymous 11h

Just communicate how you feel, if you wanna wait till marriage, tell him, if you wanna wait till you just get to know him more and feel ready, tell him. Just communicate and his response will tell you a lot about his character

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 19h

Okay thank you

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 19h

No problem, be safe and I hope things go okay when you tell him!

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