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hi help have a first date tomorrow he’s kind of awkward and nerdy (in the best way duh) how do i flirt without scaring him off
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Anonymous 3w

Just have actual genuine conversation, do not try to socially engineer anything

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Anonymous 3w

You won’t scare him off

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Anonymous 3w

Light touch, complements, keep it slow it’s a first date

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Anonymous 3w

Discern one of his interests and let him talk about it

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Anonymous 3w

No

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 3w

I never understood where women get the idea that men universally get “scared off” by affection. The men who do are almost always the ones that won’t even commit to a relationship in the first place

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