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I’ve heard that men only value women they have to work for. As in if I put too much effort into continuing a conversation or something they lose interest. Would you say this is true?
#poll
Yes
No
Kinda- explain please
I’m a girlie but I wanna vote too
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Anonymous 2w

Fuck no, if you don’t put back effort into a conversation I’m just gonna assume you don’t like me

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Anonymous 2w

No. For us even getting the attention of a woman is extremely valuable

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Anonymous 2w

This kind of advice is often given by women who have been single/divorced for the majority of their lives.

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Anonymous 2w

If a man is truly interested, he will want to work toward a relationship with you. That being said, if you reliably *force* him to work for it, ie make talking to you more difficult than it has to be, he will quickly clock you as what you are: a chore.

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Anonymous 2w

If I have to fight for your attention now, I’ll probably have to fight for your love later.

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Anonymous 2w

I think the chase is fun for a little but there's a threshold for everything

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Anonymous 2w

Lmfao All of you need to STOP listening to your angrily single friends omg🤦🏻‍♂️

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Anonymous 2w

Depends on the dude. Avoidant attachment styles are like that

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Anonymous 2w

Maybe the most lopsided poll ever

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Anonymous replying to -> #7 2w

Healthy attachment styles wouldn’t do this though

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