Sidechat icon
Join communities on Sidechat Download
How do I talk to my bf about engagement ring styles without him feeling pressured. I’m in no rush and don’t want him to think I’m getting impatient, I just want to tell him about some preference (mostly a smaller gem bc of my work and silver bc skin tone)
upvote 6 downvote

default user profile icon
Anonymous 1d

Why can’t u talk about jewlery u like and then move the convo to rings in general and talk about that

upvote 9 downvote
default user profile icon
Anonymous 1d

I would casually ask him to walk into a jewelry store in a mall or something. And point out what you like and what you don’t. Like “I prefer silver to gold because of my skin tone; www that gem is ginormous. I would much rather have something small”

upvote 1 downvote
default user profile icon
Anonymous 23h

As #1 said, my gf just started talking about jewelry. If you want to be really nonchalant bring up something you really don’t like or care for, my gf brought up how she doesn’t like how people demand real diamonds if they can’t even tell the difference and then how she’d honestly prefer other stones and etc etc.

upvote 1 downvote