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i’ve been talking to this guy for a while and he wants me to sleep over. problem is….i have obstructive sleep apnea. is this a dealbreaker for guys? will he think im weird or gross if i tell him? i’m so scared of sleeping over and embarrassing myself
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Anonymous 1d

I would never ever find this a dealbreaker and personally, I'd be surprised if anyone did. I think it'd be wrong to judge someone for dealing with obstructive sleep apnea

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Anonymous 21h

what is obstructive sleep apnea mean like what will be different if you sleep over

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Anonymous 1d

It will be much better if you tell him beforehand than if you surprise him with it

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Anonymous 19h

Weird or gross no but if you need a CPAP or BIPAP maybe something to warn him about beforehand. A lot of people snore at night so that’s not too strange

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Anonymous 17h

A good guy would overlook that, he just wants to be with you. Yall don’t even have to sleep in the same bed, just tell him, don’t be insecure about it

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Anonymous 20h

Dealbreaker long term tbh. Had a partner that snored loudly every night and I couldn’t sleep. She was cool af but yea it was a dealbreaker for me for anything long term tbh

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 20h

It means the soft tissue at the back of your tongue and throat tends to block your airway in your sleep. Have you ever heard some who was loudly, violently snoring, like they were choking in their sleep? It’s that.

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 18h

thankfully i do have an apap machine so snoring is minimum when im at my place, but he likes inviting me to his place and it feels weird to bring the whole setup just to sleep over lol

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 18h

it means i snore like im sawing logs. unfortunately its just a genetic thing, my whole family has it.

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