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Is it bad to want a military man? Or a man that we’re not together alll the time like we both are working ,both text everyday but still see each other a few times a month ….I think it could be healthy distance ?🤷🏽‍♀️
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Anonymous 1d

Why would you only want to see your significant other a few times a month?

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Anonymous 1d

I think about this too as a girl like you get your own life and peace but also have that person around when its convenient loll so you get to have lots of freedom

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Anonymous 1d

The space and time apart you’re describing and romanticizing is NOT on your terms, it’s incredibly stressful and taxing on each other/ the relationship, it’s part of why the divorce rate is so high in the military

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Anonymous 9h

Personally I would not want a military man because I don’t support the military and our values would not align, but you do you girl!

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 1d

Exactly!!!!

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 1d

And their uniform + gear looks veryyy appealing so its always a good plus 😮‍💨😚

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 23h

Mainly because it’s so common in my family to have that distance and we are an air force/military family so yes it is stressful to have but I think with my job and other priorities I think a relationship more like this with distance would work better than a standard relationship

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 17h

It’s not clocking to you apparently

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 8h

The military is bad but military men are badddd🥵

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