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Why am I never THE girl? As in, a guy's first choice, the one he yearns for. I'm always either used as a rebound, broken up w for another girl, or left for an ex. What can I do better? I'm always sweet and wholesome w men, I just don't understand 💔
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Anonymous 1w

This kind of thinking will hurt you. I’m sure you will find someone

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Anonymous 1w

Most people are not the person for most people unfortunately.

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Anonymous 1w

What’s your interests?

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Anonymous 1w

This is such a stupid whiny question

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 1w

Sad but true

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 1w

Thank you 🩵

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 1w

Perhaps the exact reason why

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 1w

Cooking, running, CAD/3D design, piano, singing, dancing classes w my friends in the evenings, church fellowships, volunteering at the animal shelter, painting, pottery, and skating

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 1w

I also LOVE to design fashion outfits and sew them together. I've been thinking of making a small business out of it, but I want to keep practicing a little more first

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 1w

And the crazy thing is, guys do notice. They flirt w me a lot and ask me out. I go out w them. But the issues happen as soon as I think it's going well, they're either emotionally unavailable, I find out they were just using me as a rebound, etc.

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 1w

You have great hobbies! Someone is gonna come along it just takes time :)

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Anonymous replying to -> #6 1w

Ty ! 🩷

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