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If you’re dating a woman for a potentially serious relationship (so no we’re not talking FWB or anything like that), do you lose all respect for her if she sleeps with you on the first date?
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Yes, respect is gone immediately
No, see things through regardless
Depends on quality of sex
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Anonymous 5d

it takes two to tango??? why tf would u lose respect after that, you wanted it too😭

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Anonymous 5d

I wouldn't sleep with anyone on a first date, idk them yet. I wouldn't lose respect, I would just say that's not my style

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Anonymous 5d

If she tries to sleep with me? I wouldn’t lose respect but I would worry we have different compatibility

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Anonymous 5d

Unless it was extremely easy then no. Girls almost always show some kind of push back as tests so I understand not every man makes it through her shit. I also get that she wouldn’t want to feel judged if she did it on the first night (bc she wants to anyway) so I like to make sure she feels as comfortable as possible around me. You can easily tell when a girl throws herself around constantly

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Anonymous 5d

I will never sleep with someone who got longer potential on the first date if they try and sleep with me I won’t do it nor will I see her the same

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Anonymous 4d

Didn’t read the rest of “depends”, just saw depends and answered it… imo I’d rather not and I would like to wait until marriage, but it speaks more of her ideals and goals than anything else. Ofc things change for certain people, like if I’d known her for years and we were basically dating but not, then that’s different scenario than if it’s someone I barely knew

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 4d

this was my immediate thought, that would also mean i am the man who has sex on the first date & i don’t think it’d define who i am (that said it’s never happened but still, if i did, sometimes chemistry is CRAZY)

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