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New to dating, where do I meet (attractive) guys? I don’t go out to bars, am out of college, and don’t go to church. Like I genuinely don’t even have the imagination on where to find guys to date
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Anonymous 3w

Find a hobby group of even an online space where people who share your interests meet

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Anonymous 3w

I’d say probably join a coed sports league of some sort, you can meet a lot of active guys there of varying attractiveness

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Anonymous 3w

Tbh if you’re not using a dating app and it’s not purely over you’re lowkey cooked

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Anonymous 3w

Out of college? You’re cooked

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Anonymous 3w

i've been out of college for over 6 months now and i met my bf at work. we don't work in the same department but in close enough proximity that we see each other sometimes. he came to visit me at work a few times and finally exchanged instagrams (we work at a theme park). he admitted he had a crush on me and i developed one too and we started dating. so my advice to you is to look into your co workers. especially if you work at a large company, find others outside of your department.

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Anonymous 3w

the gym

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Anonymous 2w

Gym but be prepared to be the initiator

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Anonymous replying to -> #5 3w

do NOT date someone who is above u or below you tho.

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Anonymous replying to -> #5 3w

I lowkey have a rule for myself to not date coworkers cuz it might get messy and that’s no good for the workplace lmao

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 2w

wdym

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 2w

r u kidding me lol

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Anonymous replying to -> #6 2w

we don't work directly together! in entirely different departments

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Anonymous replying to -> #9 2w

someone’s gotta

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Anonymous replying to -> #9 2w

Thing is, I don’t like to initiate because every time I did, they always are taken. Should I just save myself the embarrassment and my preserve my dignity and just not approach? Because it seems like everyone is taken nowadays so I’m worried about even trying

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Anonymous replying to -> #8 2w

Meeting new people is hard after college lol

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Anonymous replying to -> #6 2w

i’ve considered this but would immediately embarrass myself 🫩

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Anonymous replying to -> #10 2w

How so ?? Joining a sports league just makes you a cool athletic person 😎

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