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whats on ur list of qualities for an ideal woman
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Anonymous 1w

Has to be smart (I’m also academically focused) and have a sense of humor just so we can have fun together basically. As far as morals go being a leftist will pretty much put us on the same page. At that point religion isn’t a huge deal but I’m pretty much atheist so that has to work as well

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Anonymous 1w

Same religion and similar values, sense of humor, confident, passionate, disciplined

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Anonymous 1w

Kind/compassionate is absolutely number 1, followed by honest and loyal. I’d appreciate if she was smart since I care about academics as well. Not necessary, but a sense of humor would be nice too. Bonus points if she’s attractive

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Anonymous 1w

Career driven, cares about her appearance and health, kindness, same religion, similar values, good with animals.

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Anonymous 1w

Gotta have the same values and be Christian because when it comes to raising kids, it simply does not work if the two of you want them to be raised under different ideas.

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 1w

i like that, do u mind me asking what religion?

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 1w

Christianity

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 1w

Sorry to pry more, but does the denomination matter to you?

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 1w

Not really, just Protestant, not Catholic. Not that I have anything against Catholics, it’d just be a mismatch in customs

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Anonymous 1w

What? No never! That couldn’t be us Catholic! Do not google the crusades! I SAID DONT DO IT! 😂😂😂😂🫠

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 1w

are you also career driven? who you rather give up their career when it comes to starting a family? (i’m just curious about what men who look for that quality think about kids n such)

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Anonymous replying to -> #6 1w

Yes i am. Well im Hispanic. Grandparents play a huge roll in childcare in my culture.

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 1w

And tbh if she’s like a surgeon making $300,000 a year, I ain’t got the slightest problem with being a stay at home dad 😂😂😂

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 1w

yea that’s actually my parents dynamic. my dad was basically the one raising me. as a young girl, i definitely wish i saw my mom more lol. he has a job now but only so my mom can work less. she’s pretty miserable tbh:/ idk id much rather my husband make more money if not most of it😭

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Anonymous replying to -> #7 1w

Those traits are waaay more important for compatibility than sharing hobbies. Also I forgot to list this but money-conscientious

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