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I have a guy friend and I don't like how he talks about his girlfriend. How do I talk to him about it without him feeling like I am invading his relationship?
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Anonymous 4w

I would bring it up and mention that the way he sometimes talks about her sounds like he is disrespecting her and it’s giving you an impression that he doesn’t think well of her. You can tell him that if that isn’t what he was intending by those comments, then it would be a good idea to think about how the things he says comes off to other people and to his girlfriend if she ever happens to hear

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Anonymous 4w

Depends how close u guys are

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Anonymous 4w

Joke about it “damn I didn’t know you hated her 😂” “Dude it sounds like you’re too pussy to talk to her if it bothers you” “Keep talking about your girl like that and I might have to steal her 🤪”

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Anonymous 4w

And when I say, I don't like I mean, I don't like how he sometimes disrespects her or devalues her in the things he's saying especially when she isn't there

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Anonymous 4w

You don’t. Stay in your lane!

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 4w

Oh, why?

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 4w

I just think it is not your place to say anything. Most likely you’ll just be told to “mind your business”.

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 4w

I think if ur close enough this is fair, approach it in a way that is not an accusation but a thing to make sure he doesn’t give off the wrong impression to others.

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