Anonymous #1 2w

you don’t dream about it or have ideas? girls always have ideas about how they want to be proposed to and stuff like that.

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Anonymous OP 2w

Maybe this is why y'all are impossible to date

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Anonymous #2 2w

because we have aspirations?

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Anonymous #3 2w

I might say it in english, unless I know she knows what the lyrics of the hymn mean.

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Anonymous OP 2w

Might be a bit of a harsh way to put it but I do think this is an example of women being pickier than men. Not saying you shouldn’t be before you come at me

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Anonymous #1 2w

so it’s being picky to know what you want?

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Anonymous OP 2w

And not settle for less, yes

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Anonymous OP 2w

i feel like proposals go with personality traits or personal hobbies of the woman so kinda hard for a guy to imagine when he’s not with someone. for example i’d personally like a proposal done on an amazing hike but other girls might not like hiking so that would be a dumb move for them yk

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Anonymous #1 2w

why the fuck would i settle for less? 😭

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Anonymous #4 2w

yes this is what i’m trying to say!!!

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Anonymous OP 2w

That’s what I’m saying, men settle and women don’t generally

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Anonymous #1 2w

and that’s their fault for not knowing what they want

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Anonymous OP 2w

I think men and women are just different in that regard. Women are more like “I want this, I want that, I know my worth and I won’t settle for anything less” and men are more like “just go with the flow”. Nothing wrong with not knowing what you want

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Anonymous #3 2w

cute

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Anonymous OP 2w

It’d be a Catholic relationship and wedding if that wasn’t clear lol

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Anonymous #5 2w

that’s actually crazy bc that’s how i want to be proposed to except a different song maybe

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Anonymous OP 2w

It’s a good way to propose to lady

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Anonymous #5 2w

it’s is, super intimate and calm

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Anonymous OP 2w

I can’t wait to have a lady to propose to like tha

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Anonymous OP 2w

No, aspirations and wanting love is good. It’s usually more how some women have a very specific vision for how they want their proposal, wedding, marriage, and everything else, and if they don’t get exactly that, there’s a blow up. And men hate this because it feels like we’re just playing a part in your play, and it doesn’t feel like we truly fit into your life.

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Anonymous #6 2w

if a woman tells you exactly how she wants something, and you don’t do it, you expect her to stay with you? like wdym “blow up”? if i tell someone; “hey i prefer you respect my wishes and we have this at our wedding” and you don’t do it (as long as its realistic), im going to assume you don’t care about what i have to say or what i think. just because you don’t have big dreams, doesn’t mean you can belittle someone else’s.

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Anonymous OP 2w

I am not belittling anyone’s wishes. I’m just pointing out the fact that a lot of women (such as my ex) have a very specific vision and don’t actually communicate any of it, and then get pissed off when it doesn’t go exactly how they envisioned it would when they were children. And it’s never “I want this one thing”, it’s typically making the decisions for everything when that just isn’t reality in a truly loving relationship. It’s expectations from social media that kill relationships

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Anonymous #6 2w

It’ll oftentimes be stupid crap like that she hopes he does it in a specific place or says a specific thing or does something like lift her up and spin her or literally whatever thing she saw in a rom com, and then even though the proposal or whatever it is is otherwise amazing, she didn’t get that one small thing she had fantasized about, and she’ll crash out. I’ve seen it happen and guys don’t do that because we’re just happy if anyone puts in any effort for us at all

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Anonymous #6 2w

ohhhhh so one girl made you upset so now all girls are just like her. i get it now.

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Anonymous OP 2w

No, this has just been my experience with girls. Happened to me multiple times, I’ve seen it happened to my friends, and I hear about it happening to other guys. Imagine putting your heart and soul into something that you really thought was going to go well, and then it gets thrown back into your face because you missed one tiny detail you weren’t aware you were supposed to do, because it was in a book that you’ve never heard of that she read 3 years ago.

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Anonymous #6 2w

it sounds like you’re projecting

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Anonymous OP 2w

I mean sure I guess I could see how it would sound that way, if you completely ignore essentially everything I said. But yeah sure 👍

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Anonymous #6 2w

👍

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