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Ask Men 23w

Why is it seen as incel behavior to call out misandry?

Anonymous 23w

Because when you live in a society that is patriarchal society women don’t have the social power to discriminate against men. Also it is incel behavior for a guy to blame women for all there problems. Just my opinion

Anonymous 22w

I’d say because the same guys to call out misandry also very likely ignore misogyny, which is more serious and common.

Anonymous 23w

How so?

Anonymous 22w

Bc we’re at a point right now where a lot of misandry is put on this pedestal as a trauma response and frankly a viable way of avoiding the natural selection of predatory men. Like we had to come up with the bear-in-the-woods metaphor because crossing the street when you saw a man coming the other direction sounds too much like something a racist would say

Anonymous 22w

Let’s say someone called you an incel for calling out misandry, or you see someone getting called an incel for that but you agree with them, either way you make this post.

Anonymous 22w

It's just double standards we hold in society for no good reason. Like when a female teacher sleeps with a male student or circumcision versus genital mutilation they just aren't viewed the same when women are involved so it's either not a problem or they get treated differently. Just is want is, no one cares enough for the difference to matter right now

Anonymous

#2 23w

Sorry for the grammar mistakes I am very dyslexic

Anonymous

#2 23w

So what? Why should that mean they’re allowed to be misandrist? I agree with the last part I guess but many women have a tendency to blame all of their problems on men too

Anonymous

OP 23w

I mean they should but they don’t have power to impose anything on men like men have done to women. Really all they can do is say mean things.

Anonymous

#2 23w

Women can discriminate against men though

Anonymous

#3 23w

I mean kind of but not systemically

Anonymous

#2 23w

Discrimination is still discrimination and there are those of them absolutely would do it systematically if they could

Anonymous

#3 23w

No, they can be prejudiced, but they cannot discriminate against. Discrimination is the action of systemically excluding a group of people from something, and given that most CEO’s are men and the government is ran by men, it is physically impossible for women on a national level to discriminate against men. Whether they’re misandrists or not is a different story

Anonymous

#3 23w

No they wouldn’t most just want equality and when most say “I hate all men” they mean the men who uphold the patriarchal system.

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Anonymous

#2 23w

So basically “I hate all men who don’t hate themselves for being men”

Anonymous

#5 23w

No men who understand the system that is in place and want equality

Anonymous

#5 23w

This is definitely something I’ve seen on TikTok or Reddit (or he’ll even yik yak) about 8000 times

Anonymous

#7 22w

Girls saying all men are either delusional (few cases) or extremely unlucky (many cases), in both instances, they know some absolute dick heads. Don’t defend those dick heads are try to associate yourself with them.

Anonymous

#7 22w

*or

Anonymous

#7 22w

When it’s delusion, just abandon any hope of a productive conversation, because they are deep in the trenches at that point and probably use it to justify shitty behavior, meaning that conceding on that point would destroy their relationship with themselves.